Friend, has housecats and they done go out. He adores them. But...
Two females ages 2 to 3 form kittens, never vet registered and not netured or wormed or fleaded regularly.
Live in living room only which isn't that big, no scratch posts, beds or toys realy and place is very messy.
Fed 2 pouches between them a day and busicuits... If he can afford it often no biscuits end of month. Litter tray is frankly grim.. Can smell it and viably full of poo very often.
Is this neglect? I think it's borderline but he clearly cares about them. They got poorly and I pointed out needed worming and fleaing then got better.
AIBU?
Is this a bit neglectful (pets)
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 19:44
Am I being unreasonable?
146 votes. Final results.
POLLTheNoodlesIncident · 20/09/2022 17:06
To be fair to the RSPCA and others, they have to produce the strongest evidence of the most horrific cruelty to get a conviction - it's the CPS and the courts they need to persuade that a serious crime in law has been committed against animals. It's not fair to say they won't care, they clearly do - but they know they won't get a conviction of cruelty against someone who doesn't provide enough litter trays or is sketchy with doling out food. It's clearly dreadful neglect but in the eyes of the law, that's not enough unfortunately. There are only so many animals that animal rescues can house and feed themselves, they can't keep indefinitely removing them from dodgy homes.
"The RSPCA is under pressure to drop its right to bring prosecutions after it spent £22.5 million on prosecutions over two years. The cost includes £10 million for vets fees and taking care of animals during the prosecution process." Posters have said before that the RSPCA don't care, they clearly do but it's unrealistic to think that they can stop all people who, for example, get dogs and leave them to bark all day in the garden!
All you can do is try to educate the person into understanding that there are baselines of care and they're not meeting that, with the pets suffering as a result. And that in itself can be very difficult, as not everyone is endowed with sufficient intelligence to learn adequately nor always the understanding that their treatment of their vulnerable pets is abusive. They might not have the compassion to care enough either. It's never an easy situation. OP clearly wants her friend to enjoy pet ownership with an improved ability to care for the cats, but is he willing and capable?
TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 20/09/2022 16:15
It sounds like you know as much about cats as he does.
the cats deserve better, much better.
sadly SPCA won't do anything about it.
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:01
They wee everywhere as not neturtered
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:01
They wee everywhere as not neturtered
Thelnebriati · 19/09/2022 22:57
Its a myth that cats that never go out don't need worm treatment or vaccines, and its neglectful of owners not to bother. Its easy to take a stool sample to the vets for testing if you believe your cat is worm free.
Most kittens are born with worm eggs and good breeders will worm them; BYBers don't bother.
Pleaseaddcaffine · 19/09/2022 20:14
I have spoken to him about it several times, he seems to genuinly belive he cleans the litter tray every 4 days. No way he does. It mings. I mean takes your breath away mings
Babyroobs · 19/09/2022 20:27
Why bother even having cats if they are not going to be able to go out. Just wrong ! I don't care what anyone says trying to justify it.
NameChangedForThis12398 · 19/09/2022 20:59
If they do not go out they do not need flea and worm treatment. A pouch each plus dry food doesn't sound like they are being starved at all. My cats get that. They used to get 2 pouches each a day plus unlimited dry food but wasted so much wet food I cut it down. I have 1 housecat and 1 cat that goes outside. It's their choice but my younger one had never attempted to go out. I've put him in the garden and he runs back in. He's 7 now and not neglected. YABU.
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Beamur · 19/09/2022 19:48
If they never go out, they probably don't need flea and worm treatment. Not neutering is risky in case they do get out.
Food and living conditions leave a bit to be desired though. They are probably bored and under exercised.
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