AIBU to think this wedding invite comes across as intentionally luke warm? From my cousin whom I always thought I had a good relationship with, if not a close one. We live in the same city, I received the following via text:
“Hey BatFink,
I’m getting married in two weeks’ time.
Obviously you’re invited but I do understand with baby you may not want to come
The wedding will be at such and such church at such and such time, followed by dinner at 6pm”
That was all. As I say we’re not close but grew up together and see each other a few times a year. It doesn’t seem like a genuine invitation to me at all. Thoughts?
AIBU?
Rude wedding invite
BatFink260 · 28/04/2022 17:33
Am I being unreasonable?
1297 votes. Final results.
POLLmudbone · 02/05/2022 01:07
if the invite is the one posted in the one i saw when i opened this post it says June 12 2024 two years away smh😵
prettyteapotsplease · 30/04/2022 09:36
An equally off-hand reply may be in order. "Hey bride, obviously I won't be attending."
prettyteapotsplease · 30/04/2022 09:36
An equally off-hand reply may be in order. "Hey bride, obviously I won't be attending."
catandcoffee · 28/04/2022 17:37
wow... meaning leave your child at home. Not really bothered if you come or not.
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Tangled123 · 28/04/2022 23:56
I don’t think the invite is rude, just a bit blunt.
I think there are two options here,
- you’re filling a space for someone who dropped out
- she genuinely thought you wouldn’t go because of the baby. Someone told her she was wrong (your mum possibly), so then invited you because she wants you there.
- she doesn’t like fuss and doesn’t want to burden people with feeling like they have to come to the wedding, especially if she doesn’t talk to them frequently. That’s why she implied you don’t have to go.
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