going back about 12 years i used to hang about with a group of 5 friends, 3 girls and 3 boys. we were best of mates for 3 years or so. Things changed when i got married a few years later and moved away. The boys were quite rude about my choices and lifestyle. We all lost contact and have just moved on really. I moved back to my home town last year. Word got out and i kept getting emails wanting to arrange a meet up. I wasnt in the frame of mind, id moved back as dh and i had been having problems, and had actually just seperated, i had a 6 month old baby and had to live at my dads for a few months. I was horribly embarassed and just needed time to sort things out. Well a year on things are all fine and dh and i are back on track. i have a house and job and feel much for secure. So i have agreed to a meet up. 4 of the six have agreed dates late jan 07 as most people are busy with the run up to xmas.
One of them ( boy, and we did actaully date for a while and has been funny to me since) sent me an email saying why couldnt we meet up sooner. I replied with that i was busy and everyone else had said they were too. He said he didnt belive i could be busy and what was i doing. So i gave him a week by week account. AND he has responded saying' excuses excuses' and just generally been shitty with me.
Im pissed off. Im on my own at the momment, i work, my dd is 21 months, and ive the house and dog to sort out all on my own as dh is in germany. DH is back 1st week in dec and i want to see him not old friends. ( havent seen him since aug)
AIBU to expect someone to respect that when i say im busy, im busy and not have to explain myself to anyone? And should i just not bother with the meet up now.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
to be very very angry at old friend?
10 replies
shoptilidrop · 07/11/2007 08:47
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.