Night out on Saturday with friends.
Talking about holidays and mentioned I’d booked a family holiday. This is a big holiday and I don’t know why I was embarrassed to mention, but we are able to go due to a windfall my H had and also through another windfall related to compensation for a v sensitive matter.
One of my friends asked when (she is away around similar time) and she kicked off because she had assumed we’d look after her small pet while she was away (now this pet needs very little care). Made a big deal about it then shouted about where she was going (close to home) and that it was ok because she and our mutual friend had decided to holiday together with their families this October (we sometimes talk about all going away with our families so it was implying I wasn’t invited in that case).
Now I know that there’s a touch of the (drunken) green eyed monster because our trip is definitely not run of the mill. But then again I wasn’t saying it to rub her face in it or to boast, and in fact theres a lot of shit we’ve had to deal with in order to receive the compensation, and we have mixed feelings about receiving the compensation anyway. For various reasons I haven’t disclosed all of these details to friends, just referred to them once or twice over the past year, as it’s not an easy subject to bring up.
My AIBU or WWYD is, i didn’t say anything at the time because we were in a big crowd, yet it’s playing on my mind. And I want to be able to talk about the holiday as the time comes and the wider context of why it’s meaningful without her making mean comments. Do I say anything to her now about how I felt and to set things straight? Or keep my mouth shut and seethe for not calling her out at the time?
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Feeling hurt and annoyed I didn’t say something
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Mumberjack · 09/12/2019 17:57
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