Ok first post so sorry if it's a long one.
4 siblings 3 from one father and one from another. Siblings A, B & C were called together last week by father who stated that now they are all adults, (over 35) that there is no point in exchanging gifts because inevitably it's just money and no point. At this point all were present except C.
A & D have 1 child each, B & C have no children (so as not to drip feed later) for the last few years, A & D have only bought for each others children and have not bought for each other.
A called DM during the week and said what had been agreed and could she let C know (c still lives at home) DM said what about D??? A said it was up to BC & D how they went forward.
So today was the day to exchange cards, A and wife bought a card for B,C & D and put nothing in. B bought a card for A and put nothing scratch cards in, but is waiting to give C & D on Christmas Day, C didnt bring any cards as was confused who to give to, D has a different dad and has said they are going to carry on as they always have.
AIBU to think that adults of over 35 do not need to swap money.
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Cutting out Xmas presents
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Misskittyfantastico85 · 08/12/2019 17:35
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