Just that really. My son is with childminder 3 days per week atm. I intend to carry this on while on Mat leave. He has just turned two. My reasons are that he's settled into a routine, he will have some freedom away from mum and latched baby, he's due to go to nursery next year and he's made good little friends so I don't want to separate him before a big step in his life, I also get to spend 121 time with the baby.
MIL and my sisters think I should save the money and look after him. Admittedly it is tight having to still pay childcare fees but I think that I have my sons best interests at heart.
It's been made worse that I have been signed off work sick during the last few months of this pregnancy so I am 'at home doing nothing' whilst still dropping him off down the road those three days. I have been to a christmas toddler group with childminder and DS but didn't want to attend groups all the time to throw him off his routine.
Now that it's been pointed out to me, mum guilt has set in. So AIBU?
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Justasconfusedwithnumber2 · 05/12/2019 14:20
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