My DH is a Dr who did his time in A&E but thankfully has moved on to specialise.
To be a Dr (depending on specialty) you need impressive grades, which means about 10% of a nationwide A-level year even stand a chance!
These are VERY intelligent kids, who are presented with a bunch of career options like finance, law, tech and the WORST paid of these is medicine (it’s not seen as the ‘best’ choice). But some (like DH) do it anyway because they want to help people.
Then they get hit with 13 hour days, nights, and get moved around hospitals at the drop of a hat regardless on where their house/spouse are, (DH has been dumped a 2 hour drive from us - 😡 whilst we live opposite his preferred hospital) so settling down/having children is a bloody nightmare.
Meanwhile they watch their peers/ uni friends earn 5x their salary but yet the daily mail (and half the country) winge about the amount Dr’s earn and they get daily abuse from patients who are unhappy with the NHS 🙄🤔 - so people want the ‘best and brightest’ saving your life on an opperating table...as long as they’ll do it for bargain basement prices? 😒
So then they hit 30, wonder why they’re bothering and head abroad to be paid at least 2x as much (often more) and live a family friendly lifestyle of non crazy hours and compulsory moving around.
Fair enough.
But by that point the NHS has ‘invested’ an obscene amount on money in training them up, and it’s gone in an instant because they don’t treat them better 🙄 and they have to start all over again with a graduate who may end up doing the exact same thing!
It seems insane to me, DH has always been loyal as a dog to the NHS, but now we want to have a baby and are both terrified of them dropping him at a hospital 3 hours drive away when we have a tiny baby and my career/our family are all in our home town! (This happened to two of his friends!!!)
He used to work at the hospital opposite us but now they say they say he’s not a ‘priority’ to work there are doesn’t have school aged children 🙄😡 we’re seriously considering a move abroad atm!