For context DP has a demanding job and I’m on maternity leave. Also, as I think it’s relevant, he was fishing all of last weekend.
9 month baby was up most of Thursday night, I lost count after the 8th or 9th time of getting up.
Last night DP calls to say he was on his way home from work but traffic is bad. I mention how tired both me and the baby are and that the baby has a really bad cold.
He calls back a couple of minutes later and says if I’m tired and just going to go to bed early do I mind if he goes to the pub for a few. I hesitate as it means I’ll have to do dinner and bed time routine by myself and I can’t face another night like the one before on my own.
I say it’s fine but can he make sure he’s able to help with the night if it’s another bad one. DP agreed, said he won’t be late and even said he’ll take the lead with the baby for the rest of the weekend.
I call after midnight and he can barely talk he was so drunk. Long story short, he ends up sleeping somewhere (I know where but don’t want to disclose on here) and getting a cab home at 5 this morning.
Turns out he fell over and as a result he has a swollen cheek bone, cut on his head and a swollen wrist.
I got up with the baby at 7 and kept her quiet until 9 when we went up to wake DP up. I could’ve let him sleep more but I’m tired as I’ve been up half the night again and to be honest I am annoyed at him for not sticking to his word.
He is saying he doesn’t go out often, I should give him some grace. He tried to get home but couldn’t get a cab. (He could, the problem was he was just to drunk to know how to get one).
So AIBU to be annoyed at him or is he for expecting me to not be annoyed and for not apologising.
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SailAwayWithMeHuni · 27/10/2018 10:12
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