Hi M3lon!
Sorry taken me a while to get back!
I’m guessing from your explanations and mention of grad students that you have a background with physical sciences. If you aren’t from formal education and are just getting your knowledge without human guidance, just books or papers, seriously, look into getting yourself a degree! Your mind is incredibly smooth and at ease with these concepts.
So I was genuinely asking, what age kids?
As you know if you are a pro and trained which I think you are, physics is taught in layers. A professor of mine once told me that they found themselves having to wait for maths knowledge and experience to catch up. A student can understand the basic concepts of quantum mechanics long before (or if ever) they have the math skill to actually work with it or really absorb and understand the depths. Equally, we don’t skip introducing classic mechanics to preteens just because some will go on to develop this into a knowledge of quantum mechanics.
Special relativity in it’s own right is not passed by just because later things get a whole lot more interesting and accurate with general relativity! It’s a layering approach.
Time, well now there things get interesting and are continuing to get interesting! Did you see the results that came out of the LHC where a research group recorded paricles they sent out arriving at a later point in the physical destination tiny fractions of early in linear concept of time than the time they had been sent, not faster than speed of light. Bafflement all round!
We do now work, theoretically, with faster than speed of light concepts and there is a developing nature of the concept of time within applied and theoretical studies. So time is no longer, when looking at the maths which holds up, or the theories that are reasonable enough to be studied and investigated in applied science, limited at the previously held rules. Time is now considered fluid and incredibly complex in so many ways. Mostly based on theory, but that’s how science now works, a crazy genius had a theory, a few maths geniuses say «Hey, there is something in all this, it’s not wrong», then decades later applied research scientists get into proving physically.
Now, I’m not suggesting this is all appropriate or sensible for younger students, or students in process working through layers and needing decades to have even a chance at developing the math skills and mind if they happen to have the potential. My head just hit the desk because I’ve been through the maths on all these things, so I see more than a science fair kid. If a science fair kid did come up with the logic or math on time or any other of the currently being explored mysteries next in line to be really delved into, without training or experience, they would be a freaking genius, in the literal sense!
So my head hitting the desk is not a comment on inaccuracy, it’s my brain hurting because I sit at somewhere else in the journey, that’s all!
It’s not about me here however, or any non layperson adult as you made clear, it’s where kids are at in the process!
So it was a genuine question, that’s all, what age kids?
Incidentally I don’t think you are being patronizing at all. I think lay person explanations are really important! They work for the vast majority of young people and demonstrate to adults who may think they are not capable of understanding something that in fact, they absolutely are!