Bit of a silly one!
I was playing a board game with DH and DS5 earlier. DS is very competitive and get a very upset if he isn't winning or wins overall. I won the game and this resulted in 15 minutes of crying and wailing from DS followed by sulking.
DH always lets him win every single time and says it's easier, with DS's reaction today proving his point!
I don't think this is good for him. Currently he crys at the least little thing and doesn't cope well when something goes wrong. Things do sometimes go wrong and I feel he needs guidance on how to deal with these things rather than the easy way out of not having to face these issues at all.
When DS and I play I do sometimes let him win and other times he wins of his own accord.
We're just about to play another game and I will let him win this one although he normally beats me anyway!
I know it's only a game but, to me, it's the bigger picture.
I'm posting because I got a bit upset earlier thinking I maybe was in the wrong and was a "bad" mum as he was so upset.
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To not let him win?
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exitbreak · 24/02/2018 19:32
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