I work in a small company, 12 people in total. We all work in the same industry (construction) but do different elements each. So we specialise in certain things and if I have a customer who needs help with something I'm not great on, I refer them to a colleague.
A colleague referred a guy to me from a UK wide brand as he needed assistance with something I specialise in.
As soon as he realised I am female (my first name could be both female and male and we had only had email correspondence up until speaking on the phone) he started grilling me on my qualifications, experience, how much have I done of this this type of work and that type of work. I know for a fact I have over 5 years more experience is some areas than my male colleagues. He was really off and cold on the phone and almost disbelief that a woman could be doing my role.
Anyway, at the of the call he said "well, sorry but I'd much rather have Dave (name changed here!). I had to explain that Dave doesn't do this type of work and perhaps we could work together with Dave as second contact. He said he'd think about it.
If it wasn't in a work environment I would have questioned his decision but it was obvious it was because I have a vagina.
I feel really angry and a bit upset because so many of my other customers have always been positive about having a female in my role.
WIBU to tell my bosses? Initially I got so mad I googled the name of the CEO of the company he works for because as I said earlier it is a MASSIVE UK company. I wanted to write them a note to say this guy is a nasty sexist.
I thought this crap was fizzling out.
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snash12 · 13/02/2018 15:47
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