My exH and I literally separated this morning. It has been 10 years of emotional, occasionally physical and a lot of verbal and financial abuse. I feel like I can finally get my sanity back and start working towards a happy future for me and my 3 kids.
After being separated for approximately an hour ex texts me and says he wants to take our eldest son (the only one without autism) on holiday for a week in December.
But now I am scared that he won't come back with our son. He is a controlling and manipulative bully and I wouldn't put it past him to take our son and never come back BUT if i don't let him then he could make my life hell forever. He might just want to take our son for a holiday, but I honestly can't be sure.
He has already said that he will probably only have a relationship with out eldest son cos the other 2 have never bonded with him (nice right) so AIBU to say he can't take him? Our eldest is 5 and is a total mummy boy and doesn't even want to go with his dad.
Sorry if this is ranty. Today has been a very emotional day.
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LillyPillly · 22/11/2017 12:51
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