Once a month DH has to fly to a business meeting in London. He has to get up at 5am, and is home by 9pm. He usually starts work at 9am, but the day after the London meeting he has a breakfast meeting at 8am to discuss the London meeting.
On his last trip, he phoned from Heathrow to say his flight home was delayed, then it was delayed again, then his flight was being diverted to another airport and they were being bussed, and then, once he'd arrived in the other airport, they waited for an also-diverted Bristol flight to land so that the London and Bristol passengers could be bussed together. He got home at 2am, and was back up at 6am in order to make the breakfast meeting.
He looked exhausted. I suggested he should try to come home at lunchtime and work from home in the afternoon, to avoid driving home through rush hour traffic at 5.30 / 6, whilst exhausted. He could easily spend the afternoon working through e-mails from home.
His boss refused! By the time he got home he was dead on his feet.
I have two questions.
Firstly, was it a reasonable request to go home early in the circumstances, and was it reasonable for his boss to refuse?
Secondly, would driving home at 5.30pm having had 4 hours sleep (plus dozing fitfully on the bus) in the previous 36 /37 hours be regarded as dangerous driving?
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Driving whilst tired -WWBU
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CrimsonandViolet · 31/10/2017 08:34
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