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Scooting in restaurants

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Lucyjo07 · 22/05/2017 17:38

So, went out for a meal the other day in a new restaurant that's opened up near me. It's a diner. The owner is very active in the local community, attached to the (slightly snobby and elitist) local primary. There were two mums in there with three kids who were running up and down the restaurant and causing havoc. The owner obviously knew them. They were screaming and mucking about in the toilets and then one of them got on a scooter and went up and down the middle of the restaurant floor! The women ignored the kids and so did the staff.
AIBU or shouldn't someone have told them off?! I was paying to eat in a restaurant, not a nursery and when I kept glaring the owner just shrugged!

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SuperFlyHigh · 22/05/2017 21:46

Sunny I'd have bumped into the kid... Grin

But again in my opinion it's the parents fault not enforcing the rules, not the kids.

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Sunnysidegold · 22/05/2017 20:26

On holiday last year the food was self service and there was a frigging kid whizzing around on a balance bike at every fucking mealtime. Which was crap because everyone is millibg around with plates of food or cups of tea etc. I couldn't tell which adult he belonged to.

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DailyMailReadersAreThick · 22/05/2017 19:51

brasty don't they scoot if they also have worms??!!

Yep.

And if you see an dog on an skateboard... run.

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brasty · 22/05/2017 19:48

Maybe?

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brasty · 22/05/2017 19:48

Maybe?

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SuperFlyHigh · 22/05/2017 19:46

brasty don't they scoot if they also have worms??!!

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SuperFlyHigh · 22/05/2017 19:45

DailyMail I'd usually say ban kids (joke!).

The incident where the kid almost scooted into me in the park, I don't blame the kid at all, his father who was behind me should have been watching his kid who was scooting towards me, and the father should have parented his kid but didn't. Typical middle class useless parent.

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brasty · 22/05/2017 19:44

Dogs often scoot because they need help emptying their anal glands. Google it.
HTH

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DailyMailReadersAreThick · 22/05/2017 19:35

Ban the bloody things!

Scooters, not kids. Although... Wink

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user1468353179 · 22/05/2017 19:32

I used to work for a wholesaler. The number of people who allowed their kids to climb on the massive freezers and then say "here's the lady, she'll tell you off". Tell your own bloody kids off, little twats.

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AwaywiththePixies27 · 22/05/2017 19:26

YNBU.

I was once in a shop when some kid came scootering up and past me in the freezer aisle. The mum and dad looked on longingly and how sweet little DC scootering along and nearly knocking people like me off their feet and only stopped when a worker told them it most categorically was not allowed.

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Janey50 · 22/05/2017 18:33

Re.the dogs scooting upthread,our cat does this too,just after having a poo. Something to do with anal glands? Envy (not envy!)

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Janey50 · 22/05/2017 18:31

Grin at Purple! Seriously though, this is one of my pet hates. I have lost count of the times I have witnessed near-misses in coffee shops,involving kids on scooters (or roller skates or heeleys) and customers carrying hot drinks. But you can guess who'd get the blame if a child did actually crash into someone and end up with hot coffee all over them....

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user1469914265 · 22/05/2017 18:31

You can't really blame the restaurant. The parents of little shits like this tend to turn into raging cunts when you suggest that the bastards are doing something inconsiderate/dangerous/rude.

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Seryph · 22/05/2017 18:27

This is when there is a deep dark part of me tempted to stick my foot out! I wouldn't, but still...

I'm not above saying something though. YANBU

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Lucyjo07 · 22/05/2017 18:17

I am a friend of a friend of the owner so I told her and hopefully she will tell her. Can't believe that some parents think it's acceptable to let their kids ruin everyone else's meal because they can't be arsed to parent properly!

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SuperFlyHigh · 22/05/2017 18:03

No and no. Ridiculous dangerous behaviour.

Having said that yesterday was in a park where a child of about 5 almost scooted straight in front of my legs (he wasn't looking but going fast, I swerved and saw him). His father when seeing him scoot towards me didn't say "oh be careful, watch where you're going" almost totally ignored me.

Compare and contrast with another child later on (similar age who almost ran into me), his father told him off in front of me, mildly with "we should watch out for other people" and "be careful" etc.

My mother who I saw at the weekend said she constantly sees children in her local "naice area" park chase the ducks, geese etc yelling etc and parents don't do anything. I'd have got told off a lot if i did that as a child!

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Andrewofgg · 22/05/2017 17:58

Thank you FrancisCrawford - you live and learn!

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 22/05/2017 17:57

YY to trip advisor.
I'm not saying my dd is an Angel. Far far bloody from it, but She wouldn't have attempted to run around a restaurant. Causing havoc and danger. She had no choice. She had to behave at the table. End of story.
Its called manners consideration and respect

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MissEliza · 22/05/2017 17:57

Scooters are bad enough in shops but what kind of parents think it's ok for children to use them in the restaurant. I'd have told the staff they won't be having my custom again and followed up with an email just to sure it got back to the owner.

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FrancisCrawford · 22/05/2017 17:56

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Raggydolly3 · 22/05/2017 17:55

Also I can't wait to see and it will come some day soon. A mother in the paper with her son/daughter who has been sacked for breeching rules at work.
My sister once had a mum come into her work and complain that her daughter was not be treated fairly as she was not allowed to leave early one day.
I have also heard of a parent turning up with a kid for a job interview, they did not get it

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FrancisCrawford · 22/05/2017 17:54

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Awwlookatmybabyspider · 22/05/2017 17:52

The owner just shrugged. Well he won't do when he's sued because hot water falls on someone.
Also WTF are the parents thinking of
Allowing their children to run amock
in a potentially dangerous place.
If a waitress spills anything on them the parents will go hysterical, but yet it'll be their and the owners fault.
Is there any where you can go to complain. This is a serious breach of safe guarding

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