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AIBU to turn down this sibling/family invitation?
I will keep it brief. It's a difficult family background. Very dysfunctional family so relationships are not easy. I recently a text message from my sister inviting me to her 50th birthday celebration. It was one of those general messages sent to selected people in her contacts list (ie, wasn't addressed to me specifically). I was VERY surprised as I wasn't invited to any other celebrations/her wedding and do not have any contact with her.
A few minutes later I received another text from her which was definitely NOT intended for me!
So, I left it for a few minutes then sent a text asking were those 2 messages meant for me? Also said that I suspected they were not (followed by a wink).
She replied quite quickly, sorry, no they were not and said who they were intended for. That is just fine with me. I guessed it was a mistake and I wouldn't want to go anyway. I simply do not have the emotional energy to deal with my family and the drama that usually follows. So, all is well. Then around 24 hrs later she send another text saying no, the invitation text to her party was not a mistake! Huh?!?
I replied quite quickly saying sorry but I already have plans for that weekend.
Am I being unreasonable? It really did not feel like a genuine invitation at all! I know my family too well and just know there is going to be the usual round of gossip and 'fallout' from this with the truth of what transpired being distorted, as always, our family being as it is.
I guess I'm asking WWYHD?
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AIBU for declining this sibling invitation?
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ILookAtLifeFromBothSidesNow · 13/01/2017 22:42
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