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People smoking outside in public

214 replies

Mimicat44 · 16/12/2016 17:49

I had to go into town today for an appointment (normally try to avoid it at this time of year) with dd in her buggy. Even though it was only a ten minute walk from where we parked, we had to walk through/around four separate groups of people smoking. No way to avoid breathing in the smoke. I don't think I'm being particularly PFB as it would have pissed me off if I'd been alone but it was infuriating thinking of dd having to breathe it. At one point we got stuck walking behind someone who was smoking with no way to overtake. AIBU to wish that they would ban smoking in the street/outside public spaces? Why does their right to smoke trump our right to not breathe poisoned air? If they want to carry on, fine, they can stink up their own houses, tar up their own lungs and clean up their own fag butts!

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maddiemookins16mum · 17/12/2016 21:27

Oh, and none of you "run the feckin gauntlet" of smokers, blocking every high street, groups of 40 smokers outside every public building, shop, office, bank, cafe.....as a smoker, even I notice how very few people smoke outside these days (it's too cold, damp, we cannot be arsed mostly). Anyone who says they are suffocated walking up a high street is being totally ridiculous, it simply does not happen.

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maddiemookins16mum · 17/12/2016 21:21

So a ten minute walk, passed possibly three groups of smokers. Get a flippin grip. Oh and yes, I have read most of the thread.

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MycatsaPirate · 17/12/2016 21:16

The irony of people moaning about having to pass smokers while heading for the train or bus.

Both of those modes of transport chuck out far more pollutants than a single cigarette puff you may inhale in passing.

Unless you travel everywhere by foot or bike then you can't moan about anyone polluting the air as you are contributing to it yourself.

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somewheresomehow · 17/12/2016 20:10

Biscuit
get over it its a free (for now) country

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BoneyBackJefferson · 17/12/2016 18:45

Gowgirl
Eventually smoking will become a rich peoples pursuit as the price goes up, therefore making it desirable......anyone see a pattern.....

Yes, there will always be idiots. Grin

Two annotates and a fact (both from the olde days when smoking was aloud indoors)

When I went to college the canteen area was separated in to two areas, smoking and non-smoking. The non smokers where protected from the smoke by an invisible wall. The smokers used to sit and stand by the middle area and blow smoke in to the non-smoking half making it even worse (usually in the winter months). Until the non-smokers went outside, the smokers then sat in the nice warm area till the buses were about to arrive and then come outside and blow smoke at the non-smokers again.

On a fantastic, hot summer day we went to the pub, all of the smokers were outside (a rarity). So we staid inside, a smoker came in, bought a cigar, looked at us, the pub, lit up blew the smoke around, then left laughing.

The fact, in ye olde days smoking was sold to people as a healthy thing to do.

So Although I couldn't give a monkeys rectum, about lots of smokers today, The older generation do have an argument about why they started.

That having been said (background in place etc.) OP YABU. It it leagues better than it used to be.

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MsHooliesCardigan · 17/12/2016 18:36

YAB fucking ridiculous. When I was a child/teenager, you could literally smoke anywhere- in the cinema, on the bus/train/tube/aeroplane, in restaurants, standing in the queue at the bank. I remember going to the Post Office and staff sitting behind the counter smoking. When I was a student nurse in the early 90's, we used to sit in the nurses' office smoking while we did handover. It's hard to imagine now. Getting the occasional whiff of smoke outside is not going to harm your PFB. I gave up a 30 a day habit 10 years ago but this thread is honestly making me feel like having a fag. Smoking is an addiction. Would anyone dare to come on here and say that alcoholics and drug addicts are disgusting?

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Munstermonchgirl · 17/12/2016 18:32

But seriously guys, your children are not seriously going to be at risk in public places from the minority of adults who now smoke. You need to chill out about it. (of course general pollution levels in London are another matter and anyone intelligent worries about that. And the correlation between smokers and the chance of their own children taking up smoking - even when the parents don't smoke round their kids - would be a concern to anyone with a few brain cells. )

Anyway I hate this fucking government and wouldnt voluntarily plough more money than necessary into their coffers!

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gamerchick · 17/12/2016 18:09

Heh so do I penguin Grin

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noeffingidea · 17/12/2016 18:07

I hate it when people have barbecues in the summer. All that stinky smoke and disgusting smell of meat. It's so rank I have to close my windows if they're close to me.
I also hate it when people let off fireworks in November and New years eve. Its noisy and annoying.
Guess what, OP. That's life and I just have to put up with it. These are legal activities, just like smoking in public is. Get over yourself.

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TheSullenPenguin · 17/12/2016 18:06

So if you are a smoker you can't have a special occasion. I have a wedding photo of me fag in one hand glass of wine in the other smiling my head off. Guess that's not special. Here have a grip.

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blossom95 · 17/12/2016 18:00

YADNBU OP

I am tired of running the gauntlet with my DC on way to school/train station/after school clubs/bus stops. It's a chronic daily nuisance and the smoke we are breathing in IS harmful to lungs. Saddest of all are the smokers outside the main hospital entrances.

Meanwhile the evil tobacco industry is laughing it's toxic head off and taking the money!

So pleased that our cafes, pubs and workplaces are now smoke free inside which is wonderful, but this outdoor smoke is a genuine nuisance to pedestrians, particularly in London where the pollution is rank at the moment (Hopefully Sadiq Khan seems to be serious about tackling this!)

One day we will all look back in dismay...

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haveacupoftea · 17/12/2016 17:58

Yeah its gross but what can you do. Its not like theyre forcing you into a headlock and blowing smoke down your throat.

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Munstermonchgirl · 17/12/2016 17:55

Ooh you smokers are sooo risqué!!

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Gowgirl · 17/12/2016 17:48

Actually the rector ponced a fag outside then came to the receptionand drank my best scotch

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EverythingEverywhere1234 · 17/12/2016 17:46

Gowgirl simply appalling. What might people have thought?! 😱

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Gowgirl · 17/12/2016 17:43

I had 20 embassy in my garterGrin

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Munstermonchgirl · 17/12/2016 17:35

Don't sweat it SDT- us non smokers are pretty good on gossip too Smile

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EverythingEverywhere1234 · 17/12/2016 17:32

Not brides included Danyella ?! Horrifying unladylike behaviour. I do hope you tutted most firmly at her just to ensure she didn't miss your bosom hoicking??

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corythatwas · 17/12/2016 17:19

2 asthmatic family members, and I used to get quite ill with breathing indoors cigarette smoke, but this is really taking preciousness to a new degree.

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OfaFrenchmind2 · 17/12/2016 17:10

I do not see that anywhere SDT

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 17/12/2016 17:06

I think it is pretty horrible to insinuate that the non-smokers are boring, and no fun to talk to.

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DanyellasDonkey · 17/12/2016 17:00

We have a lovely hotel near us that we like to go to for a special meal. However if we go on a Saturday night, we have to fight our way through entire wedding parties (brides included) standing smoking at the front door,

Not a good start to a special occasions Hmm

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OfaFrenchmind2 · 17/12/2016 16:50

The smoker corner is the best gossip place. And in my company, this is the best place to see complete erasure of any hierarchy for 15mn. You share your lighter and banter with both the CFO and the intern, or with the mid level analyst... it may be unhealthy, but great for a stress reliever, and have some social interaction with someone you do not work directly with. Us pariahs stick together I guess!

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CheeseCakeSunflowers · 17/12/2016 16:26

Munstermonchgirl I agree, for me the smell of stale smoke is a memory of nights out at the disco when I was a teenager. Smile

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RachelRagged · 17/12/2016 16:16

None of you would have coped in the 70s , , We however survived.

This hysteria is mad,

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