Dd2 is 6.5 years old .
She is highly strung and still has the odd temper tantrum with screaming and dramatic tears.
We've had an issue on and off for approximately a year now with clothes.
Mainly trousers and knickers - I think she has issues with the way they feel or sit on her hips and gets extremely upset / cross if they feel like they are falling down.
I think she is NT and I don't think this stems from sensory issues.
There was an incident when she was 5 where she forgot to zip up her pants and they fell down resulting in some other children laughing at her - I know this has made her very anxious.
I've talked to her , reassured her , told her not to worry , laughed with her about it etc . Lost my temper , ignored her and everything else I can think of .
After the initial tantrum , she calms down and forgets about it mostly .
It hasn't been a problem for a few months now - until today !
I bought her some new clothes - trousers and leggings ready for the Autumn . I asked her to try them on and she did .
Then she started throwing herself about , crying , stamping her feet etc. Admittedly it wasn't the best time as she was tired and grumpy.
I also bought braces to make them in to colourful dungarees to ease the "falling down" issue .
Now I am so worried about when school starts.
It makes mornings extremely stressful for all and I'm running out of patience .
It's not like I can just put her in skirt and tights as she hates those too! Plus the colder weather will mean she will need trousers .
I can feel myself getting worked up already !
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To ignore this behaviour? Or should I deal with it?
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FootstepsOnTheDanceFlaw · 31/08/2016 18:10
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