My PIL have always been extremely critical of decisions in my and my DH's lives. Everything from holiday destinations, and what we eat for dinner, to bigger decisions like where we live.
Around November last year it became unbearable, and so as a result I didn't see them for 6 months (my DH saw them alone every couple of months). About a month ago I decided the situation was ridiculous, so I met with my MIL and told her that unless they butted out of our lives (obviously I was more polite than that!), I would struggle to have a relationship with them.
She agreed, and I have since seen them a couple of times. The criticism when I am there has (mostly) stopped.
However, when my DH occasionally goes to visit them alone (they request he goes there alone, super bizarre, but I wouldn't want to see them anyway), they are still massively critical. Nothing we do is right. Now obviously I don't hear it, but he reports back and it annoys me so much.
AIBU to get annoyed? On the one hand I feel like I don't hear it from them directly, so it's my DH's issue, not mine. Also, they have improved around me..On the other hand I can't bear this constant whinging from them behind my back.
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AIBU?
to not know whether this is normal...should I be annoyed?
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vulgarbunting · 24/08/2016 13:26
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