We are on holiday with an old friend of ours. I haven't seen him for about 7 years as he's been living abroad.
I think he's close to being depressed. He has a daughter but separated from his wife a few years ago and sees her when he comes back to uk. She is with us too and is an absolute delight, one of the happiest children ever!
But he spends his evenings drinking and becomes a very unhappy drunk who goes on about how much he misses her etc.
He has left his job and had no idea what to do so my husband has offered him a new venture to start overseas again.
He has spent the last 2 nights telling us how much he will miss her but then we said he has 2 options, stay in uk and get any job going so he can see her all the time or go overseas. He has a specialised job so not possible to get this in uk so would need to do something like a postman. He thinks this is not suitable.
So we have been going around in circles, him getting very morose, us trying to give advice. He drinks too much and then can't get up in the morning so I or my husband get her breakfast and see to her.
He now spends the day sitting on a chair and not saying much. I'm finding it very akward now, there's no conversation and I've got to the point where I don't know what to say. We have 3 more days left and then he goes home but we stay.
I'm beginning to get fed up that he's not doing anything or saying anything with his daughter or us. He started a row last night and called my husband 'smug' despite us giving him a free holiday with his daughter and trying to give some help.
How can I get this back on track and get some happy back?
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Janus · 11/08/2016 17:04
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