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AIBU?

To meet this person against dh concerns

38 replies

EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 20:11

I have been talking to a female in which we play the same game.

Not chance of catfishing as she has a husband who I have talk to as well.

It's a train trip away and can meet in a matural place in a city I would love to visit anyway so if it's a no show I can see a few museums.

Dh has never 'stopped' me from going anywhere and he is not a controlling person and encourages me to go out with friends ect.

Wibu to go anyway.

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HermioneJeanGranger · 27/06/2016 21:01

Just go! I'm sure you'll be fine. Most people are normal and aren't out to hurt you, rob you, mug you or attack you - you have just as much chance of meeting a weirdo down the local pub as you do of meeting one online!

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EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 21:03

It has thrown me off as this is out of character for dh. It had me questioning my own judgment

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53rdAndBird · 27/06/2016 21:03

Ha, I remember talking to someone who lived in null back when I was new and didn't dare go below 0.5.

me - "oh, I don't know, I'd be too nervous to fly around all the time, no CONCORD..."

them: "nah, it's Empire that bothers me. Non-blues EVERYWHERE!"

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EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 21:06

I love taking newbie under my wing.

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EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 21:08

The reason I joined 0.0 was that my little procurer got blown up in 0.7 and was very pissed off and it was recommended to join null as at least you knew who was going to kill you.

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RattieOfCatan · 27/06/2016 21:10

Does he "get" meeting people from the internet? A lot of my family think I'm mad for going to the local MN meets and for going to a London one too, they just don't really get that it's a legitimate way to meet people! (Even though they do get online dating Confused )

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DesignedForLife · 27/06/2016 21:11

I want to know what game this is! Sounds interesting!

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ExtraHotLatteToGo · 27/06/2016 21:14

Some of my best friends I met online, some here and some elsewhere.

You're meeting in a public place, not some isolated back street 😁

Tell H it's sweet, but you'll be fine.

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Enkopkaffetak · 27/06/2016 21:16

Just stay safe and meet up somewhere public. Then I see no issue. I have met up with plenty of people online...

The woman who came to be present with us when dd3 was born I met for the first time that night. (we had known each other for over 7 years online and spoken on the phone many a times) Didn't feel weird at all but the midwives couldn't believe we had never met before.

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Ineedmorelemonpledge · 27/06/2016 21:22

Skype beforehand Op?

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EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 22:03

Skype and ts have been done

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EveOnline2016 · 27/06/2016 22:04

DesignedForLife be prepared to be have your heart race and your life sucked away.

Fly safe and trust no one

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SmillasSenseOfSnow · 27/06/2016 22:06

I met my partner in a game (not Eve but another well known one). Do it, I've met tons of people from the internet. Not been murdered yet.

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