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Royal College of Midwives backs abolition of abortion law that could see women terminate unborn child at any point

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ThatsMyStapler · 16/05/2016 21:28

Surely the majority of people needing/wanting a medical abortion do so for very good reasons, and also as quickly as is possible.




Royal College of Midwives backs abolition of abortion law that could see women terminate unborn child at any point

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he Royal College of Midwives (RCM) is facing criticism after calling for abortion to be decriminalised, without consulting its members on the issue.
The union, which represents almost 30,000 midwives and health workers, has said it gives its “full support” to the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (BPAS), the UK’s biggest abortion provider, in its campaign for abortion to be removed from criminal law.
Prof Cathy Warwick, chief executive of the RCM, is also chairman of the board of trustees of BPAS.
It is currently against the law for women to terminate a foetus after 24 weeks unless there is a medical reason to do so, while abortions earlier in a pregnancy are only legal if two doctors agree to it.
But the RCM is backing calls for the legal limits to be scrapped and abortion to instead be regulated in the same way as other medical procedures, at the discretion of doctors.




There is a petition to stop this, and they say;

"Your campaign is severely out of touch with what women actually think and want. A ComRes poll in March 2014 found that 88% of women favoured a total and explicit ban on sex-selective abortion, whilst another in October that year registered a similar figure of 85%. The March poll also found 92% of women agreeing that a woman requesting an abortion should always be seen in person by a qualified doctor. Whilst in 2006, a Guardian / MORI poll found that 47% of women wanted a reduction in the upper time limit, a 2012 Angus Reid poll found this number had increased to 59% of women."

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MangoMoon · 20/05/2016 14:16

I didn't even realise it was at over 1000 posts tbh.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 14:07

Not at all. I have the app. I just don't use it. I was wondering how Mango was able to post 15 minutes after the thread had seemingly closed and I tested to see if my post would go through the app. There are very few 1000 post threads around to test on! :) It's a very strange glitch Confused

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 13:59

Oh my, bumbly I've just seen your other thread. Did you really sign up to the mobile app just to have the 'last word' here ?

Right. I'm off - this could be the longest running thread on MN ever Confused

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 13:45

The terminology is another discussion really - the important issue is that a woman has a choice - she currently does - except in NI.
In NI she has no choice except to travel overseas - which she may be unable to do.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 13:30

Mango, as I said, I introduced it to show that the term can be considered offensive to those with children born with the condition- in the same way that certain terminology can be considered offensive to parents of children with special needs and we are encouraged not to use it. It was not to do with the decision that she made wrt her pregnancy.

In any case, I don't see why sharing a story of someone choosing to keep a baby is a 'low blow' if people are allowed to share their stories of terminating. Why shouldn't both be represented? Particularly when some people seem to be unaware that babies with t18 can be born alive and live - even if only for a short time.

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MangoMoon · 20/05/2016 11:28

Whatever the terminology Bumbly, some people cannot reconcile themselves with potentially a lifetime of caring full time for what is going to be a disabled child.

As I said before, when the baby is born it becomes 'my child' and I would fight for that child til my death - but prior to term it is not a child yet to many, many people.

It is a brutal and very often offensive viewpoint, but it is a valid view shared by many people.

By introducing an individual who made a harrowing choice to keep on with a pregnancy on this thread - where other posters have shared their heart wrenching stories of choosing the opposite is a low blow imo.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 11:10

It's nothing new Future.

AndTake, there is currently a campaign running to change the use of the 'IWL' terminology so no, one person may not get to decide but their opinion can make people reconsider and that can make a difference to whether or not it continues to be used.

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AndTakeYourPenguinWithYou · 20/05/2016 11:07

Yes it was, I apologise. I'm having a bad day.

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FutureGadgetsLab · 20/05/2016 11:05

find you and all of your comments offensive but that doesn't( unfortunately) mean that you cease to exist. A bit like a lot of terminiology.

That was really fucking rude.

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AndTakeYourPenguinWithYou · 20/05/2016 11:04

I've heard back from DisillusionedAnarchist and she says she isn't offended. She thinks the more people who know that the 'incompatible with life' label is offensive, the better

Thats nice that you asked one person, but they don't get to decide what is and is not offensive in general. They can only say what they personally find offensive, which has little bearing on what other people find offensive.

I find you and all of your comments offensive but that doesn't( unfortunately) mean that you cease to exist. A bit like a lot of terminiology.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 10:57

AndTake, I'm well aware of that, thanks! I lived there for years! Grin Just to be perfectly clear, I don't think decriminalising it in mainland UK would change anything in NI.

I've heard back from DisillusionedAnarchist and she says she isn't offended. She thinks the more people who know that the 'incompatible with life' label is offensive, the better.

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AndTakeYourPenguinWithYou · 20/05/2016 10:50

I don't think that decriminalising it in the UK would change anything in NI

NI is part of the UK. If you can't even get your geography right, what makes you think you should get an opinion on the law there?

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 10:22

I actually think a change in the law would make them even less likely to bring themselves in line with the rest of the UK.

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AgathaMystery · 20/05/2016 10:16

I think it will be the impetus for change. It's sickening.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 10:13

Agatha, why do you think it would be extended to NI when the current law doesn't apply there anyway? They've made their own decisions about when abortion is acceptable. I don't think that decriminalising it in the UK would change anything in NI.

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AgathaMystery · 20/05/2016 10:11

This has all got really Daily Mail Confused

Abortion should not be a crime. Not ever. Not when you are 6 weeks or 36 weeks pregnant. We are not talking about a radical change in the law but decriminalising Abortion.

And we all know we are talking about NI.

A woman has just narrowly escaped a custodial sentence for buying her own abortion drugs. Sad. She did it alone at home. She could have died, just because of her postcode.

A pro life group are appealing the decision. They want this woman in prison. So why can't we support our sisters over the water, & Cathy Warwick?

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 09:59

Well, you shouldn't have done it in the first place IMO - it's not your story to share, or use in a discussion, and there is a photo of her baby on there.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 09:52

I've messaged the OP of that thread and if she is in any way upset or offended by my linking to her thread then I will report my post to MNHQ and have it removed.

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 09:47

Well, I believe it's not for other people to agree or disagree with - I believe it is a decision between a woman and her doctor(s). The medical profession will still have regulations, just not be governed by criminal law.

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 09:42

Btw bumbley - I think it was very wrong of you to link someone else's thread onto this one. There was a very sad ending to that story, and I don't think it's your place to link it to a general discussion thread. You could make your point quite easily without linking to someone's personal story. The poster in question may not mind, but it could cause great upset to her if she came across this.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 09:41

There don't have to be queues of people for late term abortion for people to object to making it permissible.

I don't think anyone has suggested that the RCM are 'for' or against 'abortion' just that the decision to decriminalise abortion could have further reaching consequences that they don't agree with.

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UnderTheGreenwoodTree · 20/05/2016 09:30

Absolutely. My argument is that all pregnant women should have this right without fear of prosecution (the actual topic of this thread).

Agree, christina. The RCM has been very clear that it is not 'for' or 'against' abortion - but that it should be decriminalised. I support this.

It's totally straightforward - case by case decisions between the woman and her doctor(s). Unless you think that there are heavily pregnant women of healthy body and mind queuing up for late term abortions, and doctors queuing up eagerly to perform them - then you'll see the RCM proposals for what they are.

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 09:12

I linked to the thread to show opinions on the term 'incompatible with life' and how a parent with a child with t18 (which is often described as such) feels about its use. It has nothing to do with the choices she made as I think you are well aware Christina.

The topic includes the discussion of the consequences of changing that law, as has been pointed out to you several times. It's not as straightforward as you keep trying to make out.

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christinarossetti · 20/05/2016 09:07

I absolutely agree that the poster in the thread should have had the right (which she did) to make her own choices about her own pregnancy.

Absolutely. My argument is that all pregnant women should have this right without fear of prosecution (the actual topic of this thread).

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bumbleymummy · 20/05/2016 09:06

Under, how can a condition be 'incompatible with life' when people are living with it?

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