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to ask how often you wash your child

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blinkyoullmissit · 30/04/2016 18:04

under 2 years in particular.
Only because my ds (10 months) has developed some nasty eczema, passed down through me.
It irritates him immensely when he's had a bath as I know this happens after I've showered.
He's being bathed every other day at advice of GP and having creams put on twice daily (if not more if there's ever a chance he's bare legged or armed).
He's not a grubby child. He can't walk and has just started to crawl but the only dirt ever on him is from food he's eaten and that's contained to mouth area only.
He went 2 days without a bath and the redness went down and he was a lot happier and less irritable.

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Sistersweet · 01/05/2016 10:37

My eldest had severe eczema and we were advised to bath him at least once a day using a 50/50 mix of acqueous cream and emulsifying ointment to wash him and then smother him in the same mix after the bath. Worked perfectly and kept his skin completely under control

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MyBreadIsEggy · 01/05/2016 10:25

My DD has eczema on her torso, but has a bath everyday. We have a prescribed bath additive to put in the bath water and her skin gets angry and irritated if she isn't bathed in it. Bath time is also part of her bed time routine now so we do it every day out of habit!

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blinkyoullmissit · 01/05/2016 10:21

Ds was having a bath every night as he loves it but he's skin was just getting worse and worse.
I had horrendous eczema as a child (still do but I know how to manage it). Had to be wrapped up in bandages and all. Really hoping to avoid this with my ds!
I'll look into a filter of some sort, where can I get them from? I think for now it's experimenting with creams as I know some work great for me and horrid for others and vice versa

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FuckSanta · 01/05/2016 10:18

No.

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GruffaloPants · 01/05/2016 10:09

Most days now she's 4.

When she was smaller and had active eczema I probably bathed her once a week, and washed her face, hands and nappy area with a soft damp cloth daily. Didn't use soap ever and only started using shampoo when she got enough hair for it to look lank without.

GPS commonly prescribe aqueous cream which can irritate. Epaderm ointment was better for DD.

Her skin has pretty much cleared up now, after having severe eczema. Occasional flare ups when exposed to an allergen. Identifying what is causing the reaction is key to getting on top of the skin problems.

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mrsmugoo · 01/05/2016 10:05

DS has just turned 2 and averages about 5 baths a week.

Plain water, no soap ever used though. Occasionally if he's painty from nursery we use a tiny bit of dr bronners.

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hazeyjane · 01/05/2016 10:03

Does she have eczema, fucksanta?

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FuckSanta · 01/05/2016 09:19

Have never bathed DD (now 5.5) more than 3 times a week. Currently tends to be twice including hair washed (after swimming in the week and on a Sunday) with face, pits and nether regions swished over with a wet flannel in between. She has beautiful skin.

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LucyLocketLostHerPocket · 01/05/2016 08:05

We live in a very hard water area and found that fitting a water softener helped enormously and never used anything other than water so no soap or bubble bath until DS was around 3. He's much bigger now, we still have a softener and water still rarely touches his body more than a couple of times a week but that's teenage boys but he hasn't had eczema for years thankfully Smile

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hazeyjane · 01/05/2016 07:57

It is not bad for children to bathe them every night (it is also not bad for children not to bathe them every night!)

Hydrocortisone thins the skin over time (if used very excessively) I'm not sure paraffin does?

Oats can cause skin irritation in some people, just as much as lanolin can cause irritation in some people

Aqueous cream is good used as soap but can cause irritation if used as a cream after bathing (especially in children)

Different creams and routines work for different people.

This is the eczema advice from GOSH www.gosh.nhs.uk/medical-information-0/search-medical-conditions/eczema

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megletthesecond · 01/05/2016 07:54

Have you tried showering him instead? My ds had two years of nasty eczema that stopped almost overnight once he swopped to showers.

We'd used all the creams and remedies suggested above with no real success. Turned out it was our hard water doing the damage.

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NickyEds · 01/05/2016 07:45

My dc are 2.4 and 9 months and we bath them more or less every day now. 9 month old dd doesn't really need it but ds is always in mud/paint/sand si does get mucky now. However he had eczema when he was little and we bathed him as little as possible as it definitely made it worse. We used to use E45 bath oil (instead of Oilatum'-we found it much better)and Aveeno regularly and steroids of increasing strength for patches of bad exzema. When the string steroids didn't clear it we used Pro Topic and it was amazing eczema cleared up completely within a week. Now we use Child's Farm products and the Pro Topic for any little patches.

You'll find that what works for one person will make another worse. There's a lot of trial and error I think, which is generally rubbish but at least there's always something else to try. You should absolutely not feel bad about infrequent bathing though, you're doing what's best for your baby's skin.

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BillBrysonsBeard · 01/05/2016 07:41

I feel like less of a scruff now! Bathe 2 yr old DS twice a week, that's when his long hair starts getting greasy.

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ayesar · 01/05/2016 04:04

My son has had eczema since he was born too and we always bathed him every two days. Just recently for the past couple of months we starting bathing daily because he was getting smelly. He just turned 3. I also have to put the creams on him and weird thing is his skin was great during the winter (I'm from Canada) but now that it's spring it's getting worse :(

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Tezza1 · 01/05/2016 03:11

I am MUCH older than your son and have just developed quite extensive eczema or psoraisis (?sp) perhaps due to allergy to RA med. They are trying to work out what's causing it. Meanwhile, I have cortisone creams, etc.

However, the dermatologist told me to take 2-3 minute showers max, and to only apply a cleansing solution (such as Cetaphil or QV cleanser) to the folds of my body, and never to the whole body, which sounds a bit yuck. He also recommended only showering each second day if I can get away with it. No baths. He also recommend the super thick moisturising creams in a jar, not the lotions.

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makeitpink · 01/05/2016 02:47

Fill the foot of a (clean!) pair of tights with oats, swish this in the bath water. Don't use oilatum it contains lanolin which can make eczema worse. The oats will help and are natural. Also try epederm cream after bath. Xx

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Lucked · 01/05/2016 02:18

Mild to moderate eczema. Bath every night but rarely use soap, might put a bit on a flannel for dirty areas. Shampoo once a week (sister twice a week) Covered in ceteaben, which we get on prescription, morning and night. We get in quick with steroids used sparking if a flare up starts.

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SnarkintheDark · 01/05/2016 02:13

8-10 not 20Blush

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SnarkintheDark · 01/05/2016 02:13

Once a week unless dirty for some reason, just flannel wash nappy area/ hands and faces everyday, my daughter (11) still only washes her hair every 8-20 days and always gets comments on how stunning her hair is!

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mmgirish · 01/05/2016 02:11

My two are bathed every night before bed but we live in a hot place. My youngest ds though often has several showers throughout the day too. Our nanny showers him every morning and also every times he does a poo!

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Oldisthenewblack · 01/05/2016 00:29

I've not had time to read the whole thread, so do excuse me if someone has already suggested this, but often, the chlorine in tap water can irritate the skin. I've had a shower filter for years and my eczema has improved greatly. You can also get a de-chlorinator for the bath too. The chlorine in the water supply causes terrible itching and my skin comes out in unpleasant rashes!

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Only1scoop · 30/04/2016 22:43

Everyday ....lovely bedtime routine.

Dd loves her baths

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PattiLevin · 30/04/2016 22:41

Everyday but only because it's fallen into a routine and they love baths. I wouldn't think twice about only bathing them 2 or 3 times a week.

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KatharinaRosalie · 30/04/2016 22:38

DS had eczema. GP said to bath him once per week and it cleared up completely.

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