V quick background: I'm back and forth to the dr trying to pin down a diagnosis of what in pretty sure us fibromyalgia (talking to Dr friends and fellow sufferers). I'm having an especially bad couple of weeks, I'm in a lot of pain that my prescription needs aren't touching, my sleep is appalling and I'm pretty immobile and miserable.
Had a really busy few days and paying the price, I didn't get to sleep till gone 3 due to pain and was exhausted this morning. I very very rarely ask him, but this morning asked DH to take the kids to breakfast club. It means him getting a later train than usual which gets him to work on time, orca minor itv two early as opposed to 15-20 minutes early which he preferred. He was really arsey and asked 'Why???' so I said it was due to lack of sleep and being in a lot of pain. He very reluctantly agreed so I got back into bed.
He then proceeded to be an absolute arse to the kids, made dd cry as she asked him to swap the crisps in her pack lunch, he refused then started shouting at her. I got upland went downstairs to see what the fuss was about and he started snapping that he couldn't get the crisp box down as 'he had a bad back' (first I'd heard but he has firm for developing flu if I have a bad cold iyswim). I was really angry at him and told him to just go to work and I would take the kids myself, which I did, but I'd much rather not have had to go out in the car when I was feeling so awful.
Was it really such a big ask and WIBU to be annoyed at his attitude and tell him to aid off to work and let me take the kids?
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Welshmaenad · 14/09/2015 14:04
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