to have told him to get the cheap ones.

[wiifitaddict1]

I wear glasses and just recently my prescription has changed so I need more expensive lenses. Dh moaned as these glasses cost £250. So as I also needed sunglasses I agreed that some of my birthday money could be put towards sunglasses. (Ie moey mil was giving me). Instead he decided that he would give me an iou for sunglasses but I couldn't spend more than £100. This is ampl e as I planned to get single vision ones.
However, for his birthday he received treat items from everyone.
Now he needs glasses. We had a discussion in store as to whether he should get the cheap £69 ones or go designer. I basically said cheap ones. (as they were good enough for my birthday present)
This unlike me. Normally I rarely makes a fuss when he is extravagant. He earns good money.But tbh I am pissed off.
He is always moaning that we spend too much but as soon as he need something these rules no longer apply
Aibu

[Idontseeanyicegiants]

YANBU, he is though.
DH has glaucoma and needs specific (think jam jar bottom thickness) lenses which he gets from glasses direct and pays extra to have them adapted so they're not so thick. Even with the lovely Ted Baker frames he got last time they were still over £100 cheaper than they would have been at the optician and he got a free pair of prescription sunglasses.

[AudacityOfHuge]

Imagine if you woke on the morning of your birthday and you're DP had wrapped up some of your prescription for you. 'Happy birthday dear, here's 74 cerazette tablets, have a good'un.'

Same principle, it's something you need, it's not a gift or a treat. I can understand if you were truly skint, DP and I have done this whereby we get presents for each other that we actually need but when there's enough cash, it's not a present.

[HKat]

Oh and yanbu!

[HKat]

The only problem with ordering online is that it depends on how bad your eyesight is...My friend gets hers from Glasses Direct and thoroughly recommended them - but when I tried to order mine, they wouldn't do it as my glasses prescription is -7 in one eye, -8 in the other. -8 is their cut off apparently. I was gutted! They're so much cheaper than the high street but i have no other choice unfortunately

[wiifitaddict1]

Thank you.

[SueESidle]

Just ordered from glasses direct. Buy one get one free. Got one pair tinted for free and another 40% of with a discount code. 60 odd quid all in.

[HeirApparent]

At £6 a pop I thought it would be worth a go. Had 4 pairs off them now and all been fine. They give you instructions on how to measure.

[FunkyBoldRibena]

If you have had fitted glasses, the measurements are usually printed on them IIRC.

I got 3 pairs from glasses direct, and I have astigmatism; and got the lot for less than £60 delivered.

[wiifitaddict1]

Intrigued by direct options. Just abit worried about getting measurements right etc.

[wiifitaddict1]

I choose my sunglasses. I didn't actually like the dearer ones. I think I was just pissed off that he used me needing them as an excuse not buy me a birthday gift. Not about the money as I can buy what I like. It just the complete total lack of thought.
Also strange how sunglasses aren't essential yet he has just recently got himself some.

[InSpaceNooneCanHearYouScream]

Well why put up with him dictating this?? You his equal- say NO.

[HeirApparent]

I have £6 glasses including delivery...
Includes scratch resistance, anti reflective, full prescription unique to each eye. They are brilliant!
SelectSpec.com as recommended by Martin Lewis. My prescription sunglasses only cost £50 from the same place. And I have had more complements for these glasses than any I have owned.

[mollypup]

Never buy prescription glasses on the high street, bloody rip off! I've just bought some lovely ray ban specs for £80 online, even tesco wanted £180 for them!

[Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme]

My last pair from my local optometrist were £200. £160 for my prescription lenses and £40 for the frames because they were in the sale.

I got half the cost back from the house insurance because they were replacement frames for the pair I broke.

I actually preferred a different pair, which were about £240, but the chap in the shop talked me into this pair. I wish I'd thought of the insurance when I was choosing them, I could have had the other pair that I preferred.

[BettyFlour]

You both get cheap glasses or you both get designer. Simple as that.

[ElephantsNeverForgive]

YANBU
DH is the sole earner and he'd never question what I spend on glasses (or contacts occasionally). They are just an essential household item, like dentists bills and clothes.

(Actually it's me who resents dentist bills and declines to pay to have my teeth polished.)

[FatalCabbage]

YANBU - and good for you.

[MorphineDreams]

You got glasses for your birthday? And then couldn't even have the ones you wanted? Pffftttt

[gobbin]

A DH who moans about the cost of prescription specs is a twat in my book. You can't help being a speccy.

My current varifocals (from Tesco - outstanding top of the range) were £370. Nobody should have to scrimp in order to be able to see in the best way possible for them (altho specs are outrageously expensive, it has to be said).

[wiifitaddict1]

I think I am just sick of being last. He seems happy to treat himself and the kids.
But when I want to spend on myself which is outside usual expenditure he doesn't like it or says we can't afford it.

[greeneggsandjam]

I suppose he views himself as more important than you. Some people spend lots of themselves and a little on others, some people spend little on themselves and lots on others. That's the way it is.

Next time you want something go for what you want even if it isn't the more expensive option. Its what he seems to do most of the time.

[wiifitaddict1]

Ok his pair were chain store not prescription ones but even so.

[wiifitaddict1]

Designer. He did go for £69 ones in the end. Although I did say that really my sunglasses shouldn't have been my birthday present. Apparently they aren't essential?
They were essential last monththough when he needed a pair.

[Frogisatwat]

Glasses for your birthday? Wow