To be pretty sure i am pregnant - despite neg test?

[Odaat]

I have has two very fuzzy / super light positives - but he rest are negatives. I feel pregnant though. Think period due today or tomorrow... Am i testing too early?

[TiffanyAchingsFeegle]

That's definitely positive.

When I first started using Forums, I made the same mistake by posting on someone else's thread.

[Twirlywoooo]

Yes - congratulations!.

[Tuiles]

That's OK, we've all been there. You need to find the right talk board - use the 'Talk' or topics link at the top. In your case you might want Pregnancy or Conception. At the top of each talk board should be a link to start a new thread.

Good luck and welcome to Mumsnet!

[linzielou]

Sorry I'm new to this and don't know how to start my own thread ??

[Tuiles]

Interesting that you picked an old thread to bump rather than start your own. ..

However congratulations I'd say that's a pretty definite positive.

[ShesAStar]

Yes

[linzielou]

Is there a faint line here?

[Odaat]

Thanks laura :) how Long am I very fertile for? Will start trying asap! X

[Laura0806]

sorry you have been through this. good luck, you will be very fertile right now xx

[Odaat]

Thanks dame - i conceived my dd in just over a month so fingers x I will be so lucky for the future. As long as they are healthy and ok i dont care how long it takes.

[DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen]

Wishing you lots of luck for trying in the future OP

[Odaat]

I had lots of positive urine tests but had a bleed and then did blood test today which was negative

[WaterLoadaCack]

Did you have a positive test after the blood test though? That would indicate faulty/unreliable tests?

[Odaat]

No I think I was but had a bleed and now I'm not

[WaterLoadaCack]

So it was just crap pregnancy tests?

[Odaat]

Blood test :O

[Odaat]

Not pregnant! Bloodiest confirmed it today :(
Going to start properly trying though, so fingers crossed it will happen when its meant to this time :)

[Odaat]

Have hope*

[Odaat]

Thanks ladies. I dont really veiw it as a miscarriage as such, as it is more just like my period came before the pregnancy even had a chance- iyswim? Maybe i am in denial!
I do feel sad at the loss of a chance of oregnancy though.
Anyway shall see what the results say on tuesd. I still ahe hope.

[SummerRain]

It's totally normal to be upset and grieve for the loss odaat, no matter how early on in the pregnancy you were happy to be pregnant and would have cherished the baby.

Your hormones aren't helping matters either tbh.

As fairy says women are very fertile after miscarriage so you may get pregnant quite quickly once this is over.

[hugs] take care of yourself, miscarriage is tough and can leave you feeling quite shaken, even in the early stages.

[Fairy1303]

Not loosing it Odaat - you are absolutely entitled to grieve for this.

I hope things work out ok for you.

I think you are very fertile after a MC, so next month we might well be sitting with you whilst you get your positive result.

[Odaat]

Still bleeding today- heavier than yesterday , red but no clots (sorry fr tmi)
I still got a faint positive today :) but I know its not looking good. Back ache gone and boobs are no longer sore :(
I feel sad, sad for losing the chance at a pregnancy :/ I know it was early days- but I still feel sad for the the little soul that could have been too. Am I losing it?
On the upside , dh has suggested (well, more agreed hehe) that I just stay off pill now :D
So regardless of the outcome this time, I will hopefully have a healthy pregnancy very soon :)

[bluestar2]

Odaat I bled like you with my second pregnancy except at time I had had only one faint positive on a cheapy. The bleed wasn't like a normal period and didn't feel right. A week later I had a positive test and a further early scan - more bleeding confirmed it and there was a heartbeat. While I wojldnt get your hopes up just know these things are possible. I inform agley went on to have mmc later on but the 2 things were never connected. I hope the blood test clears thing for you.

[SummerRain]

I'm sorry

Hopefully if it is going to start it goes quickly, being in limbo is horrible.

Can you go to an EPU and ask for advice? If you were getting faint positives and had symptoms you almost certainly are/were pregnant and it might be no harm to make sure it's not ectopic (iirc bleeding can be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy). At the very least they might be able to confirm whether you're miscarrying or not so you can start to deal with it instead of not knowing

[Odaat]

Thanks Summer,
I am aware the odds are not in my favour. I am up and down right now, or minute positive and the next not!
I dont think I am now though, bleeding started again tonight and boob pain has alleviated. Think AF is on route for sure!
Will keep everyone posted regardless!