To think it's no wonder that so many businesses go out of business when they treat customers like shit?

[oolajoola]

It's almost as if some shops/salons/companies don't actually want any custom at all....

I recently phoned up a local ironing company as I've been working a lot of hours recently and wanted to get our (huge backlog) of ironing done. A gruff woman answered the phone and when I said 'hello, I'd be interested in getting some ironing done' I got an abrupt 'No we're not looking for anymore customers' and she virtually put the phone down! They may well be stacked out with customers now but this may not always be the case, and they will never ever get any custom from me now. Surely it would make better business sense to be polite.

Yesterday I went to get my hair cut. The hairdresser who cut it is lovely, but then at the end I had to go to the counter to pay, which was manned by the woman who owns the salon, with four other hairdressers standing by her chatting. They were all really hostile and made it clear that I was interrupting their conversation by daring to stand there and pay! I made my next appointment, and asked for it to be written on a card, and got much huffing and puffing and the owner just slapped the card down on the counter and didn't say a word.

There is also a local soft play place, where the service is absolutely atrocious. Things like staff standing around talking and being fully aware that there is a queue of customers to be let in, but ignoring customers for 10 or more minutes until they can be bothered to let them in. Or 6 members of staff standing behind the snacks counter chatting, with one staff member serving a queue of about 10 customers. They really don't seem to give a toss. I'd stop going there if my kids didn't love it there.

Surely happy customers are an essential for any business? Why do places just not seem to care or offer any customer service at all?

[WhisperingPea]

Trillions "I don't tolerate bad service. I stare hard at the perpetrator and say something like "I'm sorry, am I interrupting your conversation?" (if chatting to colleagues) or "may I pay for these goods or shall I just take them?". I also ask for extra tills to be opened if there is a queue and I see staff hanging about. Most of the time it works." Well done .

Me too. Sometimes in a louder voice than normal. Recently had to ask Hospital Receptionist who utterly ignored me when I stood at her desk "I'm sorry are you busy, should I go to someone else?". It would have been so easy for her to say I'll be with you in a moment.

[Trillions]

I don't tolerate bad service. I stare hard at the perpetrator and say something like "I'm sorry, am I interrupting your conversation?" (if chatting to colleagues) or "may I pay for these goods or shall I just take them?". I also ask for extra tills to be opened if there is a queue and I see staff hanging about. Most of the time it works :)

[CarbeDiem]

Yanbu.
I have had many bad experiences in hair salons. From rude people to one visit taking 3 hours to complete, it should take her 20 mins maximum, due to my stylist overbooking appts and running late. I gave up completely and taught myself how to do my pixie cut at home.
I walk past her shop often and she's noticed my fresh haircut, making it obvious I'm still getting it cut, but hasn't asked me yet.

It's not only shop people that shouldn't work with the public. I had an appointment at DWP and the guy on the desk was awful, unhelpful and rude. I wasn't on his list to tick off for that day (because we all know lists rule the world ) so he basically told me to leave and that I was wrong. I politely attempted, many times, to explain that my appt was certainly that day, I requested he took my NIN and checked a computer. Would he buggery. You'd think I was asking for access to the crown jewels or the bank vault.
With my patience worn very thin by this point I said something like ''Look mate, I've just walked 2 miles to get here for my 100% definite appointment time, I'm not moving''
He replied ''so stand there'' :)
Another guy heard me and came over, took my NIN and checked the system - Lo and behold - I WAS ON THERE

[DreamingofSummer]

Only two ways of dealing with poor service. You either complain or you boycott.

Going back to where you have had a bad experience will only make it worse

[Icimoi]

I'd like to put in a word for the staff at John Lewis. I find they're always polite, and I was particularly impressed to find they were still able to keep it up towards the end of late night shopping in the run up to Christmas when I suspect they had probably had a pretty hellish day.

[redexpat]

When I was 17 and working at Boots I helped an elderly lady find the hairnets she was looking for. She then told me that she was a Boots pensioner, knew exactly the kind of service we were supposed to give and I had done it splendidly. I was please as punch

But when I go into other Boots stores, particularly those in London, the service is appauling! I honestly dont know how they get away with it!

[HappyAgainOneDay]

VodkaJelly That's dreadful. Not what you did but what the manager didn't do. He should have expressed his own thanks and given you a copy of the letter. Having copies of letters like that would encourage staff to carry on being courteous and / or helping out further than they need to.

[VodkaJelly]

Sometimes the staff don't hear about praise.

I worked in Asda years ago and was on the Customer Service Desk when a mobile phone was handed in. Managed to get into the phone and rang "home" to inform them that phone was safe and would they like to collect it. The phone I rang wouldnt accept witheld numbers so I rang the "home" number from my own personal mobile.

When the customer collected the phone we had a laugh when i explained why I had to ring from a mobile.

About a week later I was in the office collecting my pay slip when i noticed a letter on the desk, detailing what had happened above and how pleased the lady was and how my customer service went above and beyone. I told the manager that it was me she was talking about. The manger wrote my name on the letter and you know what - i never heard a thing about it. If I hadnt seen the letter I would never have known about it.

[redexpat]

Worst customer service I have ever experienced by far was from American Airlines at Seattle airport. So, no, the US doesn't always get it right.

OMG YES American Airlines are the WORST! The guy at Boston airport check in was so rude to me after 9/11. I'd already checked with another member of staff how to get my ticket reissued. So I went to the desk and said
-hello, can you please reissue my ticket?
-whats your final destination today?
-London Gatwick.
-We dont HAVE any planes going to GATWICK.
-No, but you have one going to Raliegh Durham that connects to London Gatwick.

• It says here you're supposed to fly on the 4th of september.
  

-Well I'd previously changed that to the 11th, and that changed again to today.

• Have you even called? Dear reader I had called every single day since 9/11, and the day before had been on hold for 3 whole hours.
  
• I am on this flight. Now are you going to reissue my ticket, or do I need to speak to your supervisor?
  

Lo and behold, his eyes went down and within 2 minutes I was checked in with a new boarding pass. The people on the phone lines were wonderful though, couldnt fault them at all.

[PinkSquash]

I had two opposite customer services experiences from the same company yesterday. Train services were cancelled due to a safety defect- staff answered questions (and even gave us the go ahead to use buses if we needed to). They were amazing and friendly.

On the return journey there had been a fatality. Staff were very rude and short with questions and information was just left to the automated tannoy system. Staff looked at me as if I had two heads for daring to ask a question.

I tweeted about the good customer service from the morning, but left the afternoon one as I know that it'd been a bad day. It isn't the fault of the customer though and all it would have taken was a bit more interaction.

I do always try and praise good CS where I can as it encourages staff more I think.

[hackmum]

I think customer service is reasonably good in the UK. That's because I'm old enough to remember the 70s and 80s when it was really atrocious - Monty Python's Dead Parrot sketch is pretty much based on reality.

Of course you do get the odd grim bit of customer service, and those are the ones you always remember.

[antismoker111]

I used to work in a charity shop, had to stop due to health problems. Some people think that they are the charity, being rude if you don't almost give it away! Lots of customers were really nice and I heard they asked about me and said they missed me when I visited the shop! Manners have been forgotten in lots of places, I just don't go back if I encounter rude service. (I prefer to travel to a Tesco store further away as the staff are more helpful & friendlier than the one closest).

[antismoker111]

I have had dreadful experience with Nat West when adding my name to a club account! They use a strange queuing system for "enquiries" people being served before me. They told me the forms had changed (this year) so I had to ring a call centre. They had noone available so promised to ring later or nxt morning. No call. Phoned a wk later they said the forms had to be sent to an existing committee member, said I had not been told that, reply "well I'm telling you now". Forms came out, completed, another wasted journey. Same strange queuing system, sat for 20mins while others got seen. When I got seen form was out of date! They tried ringing call centre for 15mins, no answer. Was told form MAY be returned. Thankfully not. Finally I am a signatory - 6wks later! Won't ever be my main bank.

[Mmolly2013]

I work in a customer service environment over the phone. I always do my best for customers but the way some talk you is a disgrace. They cant see the person on the other end of the phone. I always thank staff went I need to call up somewhere and they give me good customer service. A lot goes a long way.

[Cleorapter]

I've had entire transactions with cashiers that haven't said a single word to me while I bought something before. Incredibly rude!

I also find that shops/pubs/restaurants aren't being run particularly well, only having 2 cashiers on while the queue is halfway down the shop (wilkinson's I'm looking at you here) isn't particularly fantastic. New look credit card machines don't like natwest cards as (according to the cashier) they're 'outdated' machines, (so the company should maybe update them??) and don't even get me started on my tesco experience last week with a woman who kept huffing and puffing and rolling her eyes at anyone that joined her queue!

I'm one of these people who come over sickeningly sweet and nicer the more rude someone is to me. Passive aggressive to the extreme.

[RedFocus]

Op when she slapped the appointment card down I would have said "actually I've changed my mind can you cancel that appointment"
I would not go back to the soft play place or the gym don't care if I would have to drive miles to another one I'm not paying people to treat me like shit.

[nova1111]

Beagle - I have complained in the past - nothing is done about it and they're even ruder to you next time. They have a bit of a monopoly here unfortunately.

[NadiaWadia]

fivefour I had similar with a taxi company (Swift Fox Cabs of Churchgate, Leicester). DD and I had been late night shopping and as it was freezing weather we thought we'd treat ourselves to a taxi rather than waiting for a bus. Went inside and asked the woman behind the desk. She said there'd be at least 20 min wait then ordered us to wait outside! (there was no one else queueing). So instead we walked a few yards to the bus station round the corner where there were taxis in the rank and off we went.

I don't know what it is with some people, you can sort of understand if its a worker on minimum wage who is having a bad day, but several of these stories seem to involve the owners of the business themselves. And they seem to have no awareness of the problem, as people have said.

[fivefourtime]

I've never had an experience where a manager has upbraided an 'underling' for being nice to me. If I ever do, I imagine I'll be quite colourful with the verbals, as that sort of thing just upsets me terribly. No-one should ever be ridiculed for trying hard, even if they're not trying hard in the way management would like them to.

In the US bad customer service is rare if profits are at stake, but common enough for lots of 'Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares'-type shows to flourish. If it's a public service, forget it. (DON'T go to their equivalent of the DVLA because it is the ninth circle of HELL).

My worst experience was with a cab company. I rang them: "What time of night do you stop sending cars out?" I asked. "When we're ready" the woman replied, in a tone of voice that suggested I shouldn't have bothered.

Oh, and the record shop where (and I admit this was annoying, but seriously, f*ck this guy) I was humming along to the song that was playing in the background. I had three CDs in my hand and was almost ready to pay for them, but shoved them all back in their place when the guy behind the desk stopped the music and shouted "Are you going to sing it or are they?!"

[beaglesaresweet]

nova, have you tried complaining to the manager? and telling the woman straight that she is supposed to be nice to customers could help (though I admit I can't face telling some agressive people off either - but would definitely complain to management even via phone or e-mail, if I had to use the place regularly).

[nova1111]

YANBU I'm wondering if you live in my area as the receptionist at the sports centre is a total monster. She's even mean to small dc. I try to avoid it as much as possible. I wonder why people go back for more. There isn't much choice here though - you'd have to drive to the next town so I guess a lot of people don't. It infuriates me though how they take hundreds of pounds off you yet can't manage to be nice. It's not even just a please or a thank you. It's just plain open rudeness.

[LaGuardia]

There is also a local soft play place, where the service is absolutely atrocious. Things like staff standing around talking and being fully aware that there is a queue of customers to be let in, but ignoring customers for 10 or more minutes until they can be bothered to let them in. Or 6 members of staff standing behind the snacks counter chatting, with one staff member serving a queue of about 10 customers. They really don't seem to give a toss.

Seriously, why does anyone still go to these hellholes?

[Pipbin]

To play a devil's advocate a little here, if you keep getting dreadful service everywhere you go what is the one continuous factor?

That said I do recall the worst service I ever had was a letting agents years ago. I called up about a house they had available and asked to view it. The letting agents replied with 'so, you want me to stop what I'm doing to show you round a house?'

[higgle]

Bristol Guild is a bit of an institution in Bristol but I find their staff appallingly rude, and they never pay attention when you talk to them.

I went in after Christmas to order two side tables - they had been advertising 10% off. When I asked about the 10% off he bored looking teenager serving me said the offer had finished, so I asked if I could have 10% off anyway as I was ordering two. She spoke to a manager on the phone who said no and then she proceeded to write out a sales ticket for two tables at full price + £49 delivery ( 20 miles, tables so small I could have carried them one under each arm). I said I'd buy them on line where they were £10 each cheaper with free delivery and she just shrugged her shoulders. I asked again downstairs and as soon as I had the word "discount" out of my mouth the woman looked at me as if I was a piece of dirt and just said "No" and carried on chatting with her mate at the cash desk.

The upshot was I bought my tables on line for less. I didn't buy the teapot and other kitchen stuff I was going to buy there that day and I won't be going back to the shop again except to use their toilet and browse for other stuff that I will then buy on line. I Usually buy about £500 ish worth of stuff from them each year.

I really didn't mind too much about not getting the discount but what I did mind was not getting "sorry, we can't do that," or even a token gesture on the extortionate delivery costs. The whole place looked as if it was going to the dogs anyway so I presume they are struggling.

[NinjaBunny]

I wonder if that's the overpriced uniform place my Trowbridge friend was complaining about...

It's not Scholars, it's called something else. I got it wrong.

Owner made a huge hoo-hah in the papers protesting about Matalan coming here. Turns out she buys most of her stock from Matalan and hoiks the prices up by a few ££.



It's called Trowbridge Schoolwear (original), I just looked it up.