Or did I just not used to notice it?
Today I went into a well known underwear shop, it's one haven't really been in since my student days (5 years ago).
So I walk in and there is the standard girl there to say hello, I thought, so I say hello and try to walk on passed but instead we do that thing where you try and go to her right, then left and she goes that way too and kept blocking me off then walked along beside me so she could ask what it was I was in looking for today, did I need any help, etc. This annoys me! If I want help, I'll ask, you've said hello so I know you are there. 
So I just say "I'm just browsing, thanks" and walk on.
So I go and pick up a bra to try and keep walking around looking when another girl comes over to ask if I off help. "No thank you", then another girl comes up to ask me "Did you not see the matching pants?" I say I did, and try to continue browsing, she follows me to tell me where the pants are or I can get the thong if I would prefer? I hate when they do this. I'm choosey about pants! I only get them from M&S and if they're not a PERFECT match, I can live with it, so shoot me But it's like they are judging you and giving the cat's bum face to make you get the pants too.
Then, in another shop, tried to go into the changing rooms to try on a jumper, no assistant there so I go on in myself when one runs across the shop to ask if I want to try that on? Well, yes, clearly! Then she takes it off me to walk me the 2 metres to the changing room of her choice (the first one), and then closes the curtain for me. I like to pick my own changing room down near the back, and close the curtain so I it is sealed with no gaps 
Then, when you try and pay, they don't stop their conversation to say thank you, or they act like you are rude for interrupting their conversation to pay.
And why don't shops seem to have mirrors in them anymore? Sometimes I like to hold things against me in the mirror to decide if I like it enough to try it on, so I look around and there is one tiny one on the other side of the shop.
AIBU?!
Disclaimer: I might just be in a bad mood as I've just had to pay £130 for a new passport and am trying to fill the 4 hours while I wait for it by hemorrhaging more money
AIBU?
Or are shop assistants (clothes shops, specifically) getting increasingly annoying
BakerStreetSaxRift · 14/11/2013 14:35
Two words for all you haters - Secret Shoppers - blame those fuckers not the poor old shop assistants. You miss one of those bastards and they submit a 6 page report detailing how you failed to do all the annoying stuff that people are ranting about up thread and your manager gets it in the neck and so do you! Spawn of Satan, I tells 'ee!
( PS. Guess who missed one last week ... )
Yes the asking you at the till if you want any of the tat there on special offer is really annoying too. WHS is bad for that, and the Lego shop, and Accessorize. Or when you're in an underwear shop and they look at the bra you're buying, feign looking for the pants, then say "didn't you pick up the matching pants?" 
Just fuck right off, would you?
But the one place I actually like it when they do it is Superdrug; "Do you want any stamps or phone top-ups today?" Oh stamps! Yes please! Honestly, if it wasn't for Superdrug, none of my family would get their birthday cards on time, they are the reason I am always known for having a supply of stamps in my purse. 
I am a hugely antisocial shopper and find it very annoying if shop assistants say anything more than "hello" usually!
However I work in a ladies clothing boutique! I have devised my own way of approaching customers as I am pretty good at reading body-language etc. in people and know how annoying it can be.
There are roughly 3 types of people.
- avoid eye contact, mumble hello if you talk to them, no thanks I'm just browsing, uptight and very "no contact" feel about them. I leave these alone, they get "Hello, are you happy browsing? Yes you're very welcome, please feel free to look around" and "Thank you" as they leave. I'm not going to push them if they don't like it.
- also not interested in communicating very much, but slightly more friendly and relaxed. These are the hardest as some of them DO want you to talk to them, but on their terms. Watch and wait until they look fairly interested and then drop a friendly comment or piece of information (say if they're looking at the care label "Oh, that one's lambswool") and then back off, usually they talk back which is good.
- Want to be ADORED! Some customers LOVE one to one attention and trot about the shop talking non stop about this that or the other, asking your opinion, more than happy to try on lots of items you show them and listen to you praising the merits of Merino etc. They are in and out of the changing room doing twirls for you and complaining about their various body hang ups, some of these are easily pleased and others are high maintenance, so you have to get them the "perfect" item and enthuse about how wonderful it is. I am nothing like these people, but they're usually the easier customers to sell things to!
Personally - I don't like retail! However it's something I fell into and can do and relatively enjoy, it's a funny old world
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I agree that lush is too much, so much so that I now do not shop there. Yes, it is nice when they know their products, but the endless questions, and demonstrations of the products are overwhelming, annoying and time consuming.
They do not seem to understand that "oh, I'm just browsing thankyou" does not mean "please, follow me, talk to me, and make me stop at every single product so you can give me a hand massage" 
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