well, I very rarely comment on OCC threads any more, as the debate gets so long and complicated, but seeing as how I was referenced upthread (my kids came home with them), and I haven't been on an OCC thread for a while, I will!
We used to live in Central Asia. OCC distributes boxes throughout the country we lived in.
While I don't disagree with the thrust of this thread (we don't fill or give OCC boxes) I think it is helpful to understand what actually goes on on the ground, so people can make informed decisions.
The boxes are distributed through the local church. No American Evangalists anywhere, all local people. The boxes were given out freely through the community. The children were usually invited to a party at church, this was a genuine party, with games and special food etc. The party included a Bible story - usually the Christmas story. The boxes were given to all children as they went home. There was no literature in the boxes - they would not be allowed to be imported if they had. They were also used as gifts to families and neighbours in the community, no need to come to a party. There was no requirement to come to any Bible studies etc, and I don't remember them even offering them.
Because they were distributed by local people, I think the whole balance of power thing is different, local families know each other, they know that these people are Christian and go to church and so when invited to a party at a church, assume that there will be something Christian there. Most choose to go, not really to get a gift, but mostly to go to their neighbour's party, that is how the community works.
The boxes were given to any children, not just poor ones. At the New Year Party all the church kids got given a box too, so our kids came home with one every New Year's Eve. We felt guilty about getting what had been packed for poor kids, but it was hardly fair on ours to say they couldn't get one, so we let them choose something out of the box, and the rest we gave away to kids who needed it.
And the last point is that this whole idea of ''Christmas present'' is just a British/American/Australian thing.
My dh is dutch, they don't do Christmas presents, local Christians where we were in Central Asia, didn't do presents, many Christians round the world don't do presents. It is a marketing ploy for the West. They were never given out at Christmas. Often at New Year (when gifts are given) often later, so no child is ''missing out on a present this Christmas'' as no-one get them.
I would like to make one point though, despite my dislike of OCC, it makes me sad that Christians working over seas get such a bad press. All round the world there are literally thousands of Christians who are overseas doing charity work because of their faith, because they believe it is the right thing to do. Most of them are open about what they believe, but are getting on with the job (nurses, doctors, English teaches, workers in orphanages etc) They are there primarily to serve. Without them, the NGO would be decimated.