Come home from work in an amazing mood last night ready to start my weekend, DP had been away for the week on a trip so was very excited to see him. But instead of the wonderful man I know I love, I was greeted by moodiness, blunt answers and a short temper.
It turns out, he has been under paid by £500. I can understand this is frustrating, but it's clearly just an error. We don't do badly for money, and we both know this will be sorted out eventually. WIBU to have snapped at him? All I said was to cheer up and then when he continued to sulk and be miserable, I went out to avoid an argument.
I deal with sulky children at nursery all day, I do not want to come home to one too! Although today, he is still being sulky and distant dispite me asking if there is anything else on his mind? AIBU to be so uninterested in his bad mood? If it makes a difference, I'm a positive person and have little time for pessimistic people. He does this on average every 3 months and it's always over (imo) issues which aren't a big deal. (In instances where there really is a problem, he's always very pro-active in finding solutions)
Anyway I really wasn't expecting his bad mood to last this long, so now I'm thinking maybe I was being unreasonable? Should I be making a fuss & trying to cheer him up? Or leave him to it and hope it doesn't ruin our entire weekend? Thoughts?
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AIBU?
To not put up with sulky DP?
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HenriettaHedgehog · 20/07/2013 14:53
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