My dd (5) spends most weekends at her fathers. Her clothes always come back stinking of stale fag smoke. I've approached this with him several times, and he insists he doesn't know why as he doesn't smoke at home. I assumed its from when they visit his mums. As they are only there one evening I let that go, but I have never fully believed him. Some weekends she doesn't visit her gran, and still her things stink.
I've just seen photos on his Facebook of him and friends with fags in their hands, in his flat. If I ask him about it he will say he doesn't smoke when she is there. Dd backs this up and says he goes outside to smoke.
He is very aggressive and defensive about these things so I'm wary about what to do. Should I just ignore and be glad he doesn't smoke when she is there? Or should I be concerned about the stale smoke? Will it still harm her? Would I be unreasonable to stop contact until he stops smoking at home when she is not there?
The smell did get much worse when two of his friends who smoke moved in.
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DaveMccave · 27/05/2013 15:07
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