My friend is planning to move in with her boyfriend of a year.
She has a 3 year old dd from a previous relationship.
Her and her partner earn roughly the same money, they were going to go halves on bills rent etc but now he has changed his mind and he says he should only pay a third of the rent, gas electric etc as she has dd.
He will be moving into her 2 bed flat that she has been running alone for 4 years so it wouldn't be a struggle for her financially.
I find this really odd, he knows she has a child and that child is 3 years old ffs! and to me it shows resentment already.
Is this a red flag or fair. I'm not sure what to say to her tbh.
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Splitting rent into thirds as one partner has a child? Red flag????
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Donttrustmyselfanymore · 03/02/2013 22:02
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