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AIBU?

To think dressing a baby in a babygro isn't trampy or lazy?

81 replies

WhatchuTalkinBoutPhyllis · 11/01/2013 15:20

Apparently so according to a friends nan.

Because you wouldn't go out in your pj's, so why would you take your baby out in theirs?

Actually I would if I could

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MooseBeTimeForCoffee · 12/01/2013 02:56

My DS has just turned 1 and we still use babygros. When its -25 outside, it's much easier to slide him into a snowsuit and he stays all toasty and warm :)

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IneedAsockamnesty · 12/01/2013 02:39

All of mine use baby grows up to when they start trying to walk along furniture and from then on footless baby grows or ones with grip dots on the feet or leggings and a vest. All combos if needed have a cardi over the top. at about 18 months/2 years ish I add dungeries and I start considering other types of small people's clothing

Its not trampy its putting comfort above fashion/ social pressure/ materialist pressures and IMHO I think more adults should think about prioritising comfort. But that's just me. It works for my family that may e because I'm not a fan of buying things that are not needed and the baby product market is awash with things it wants you to buy and its way of advertising it tends to make people think there a shite parent if they don't have xyz equipment because apparently you have to have these things your unprepared if you don't and its essential to your baby's well being.

So I choose to not feed it by not buying the stuff that's not needed.

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ProtegeMoi · 12/01/2013 01:23

My daughter wore nothing but baby grows with a cardigan for her first 3 months. Then we went onto occasional leggings and loose top.

At 7 months old she has still never worn jeans or other uncomfortable clothing.

Babies sleep so much and spend a long time lying down. Anything comfy, warm with easy access for nappy changes is a winner.

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elkiedee · 12/01/2013 00:55

No, babygros come in such fun designs - I particularly liked black and white animal prints - zebra, dalmatian etc. I was told off by a practice nurse when I took DS1 for jabs. In summer with DS2 (February baby so 4-7 months) I put him in short sleeved poppered vests, sometime with pull on elasticated shorts or trousers sometimes.

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monsterchild · 12/01/2013 00:41

Ugh, Ds1 is only 2.5 weeks, and I can't be bothered trying to get onesies over his head! he hates it, I hate it and since he pees on everything (he's a great stealth widdler) I have to change his clothes almost every time I change a nappy!
Easier of everyone if he just has one zipper and no leg/feet shoving to do!

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GanglyGiraffe · 12/01/2013 00:36

I don't care what people dress their babies in as long as they aren't smug about it.

Choosing to dress your baby in a sleep suit doesn't make you better than those that don't, and vice-versa.

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wibblyjelly · 12/01/2013 00:20

Yanbu, its neither lazy nor trashy.

However, I do dress 3 and a half month old ds in 'day' clothes and use the baby gros for bed time. This is only because I read that it is supposed to help them differentiate between day and night. I don't know if there is any truth in that, but it does seem to have helped ds.

We put him in easy to put on trousers, and I don't think its any more difficult to get him in or out of them compared to baby gros.

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Disappearing · 12/01/2013 00:18

Wow DameFanny - you've just explained one of life's great mysteries for me - i.e. why do baby clothes often have several actual functional pockets, c.w. button/popper fastenings, heavy seams etc. when the baby involved is so young it barely knows up from down -

The only point of putting babies in jeans and combats is to have a spare pocket for your door key

Now it all makes sense.

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TheDetective · 12/01/2013 00:16

I have a 7 week old. He has some absolutely gorgeous babygrows! I have little cardigans to match. He looks lovely when we take him out, in his babygrows! Much cuter than jeans, or other grown up type stuff! If he wears an 'outfit' it is soft dungarees, or a romper (basically a babygrow minus feet!!). He will be like this for quite some time yet.

Hell, I don't even change his grow unless it's dirty. He wore his last one from 6am yesterday morning (puke incident!) til 3pm today (wee incident!). Why would you make more work for yourself when you can be enjoying your baby!!!!

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PeazlyPops · 11/01/2013 23:49

foof - Mothercare have them. They are so cute and snuggly, I prefer them for DS to sleep in as they are warmer too.

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YorkshireDeb · 11/01/2013 19:34

The first friend to have a baby in my social circle to keep them in babygros as long as possible - they get into clothes quickly enough as it is & once they're in them it lasts forever. Babies look so cute & cuddly in babygros anyway. And they're significantly easier to get a newborn into & out of. X

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Pigsmummy · 11/01/2013 19:21

I don't use anything with a waistband due to umbilical hernia so babygrow/ sleep suit all the way! Sometimes with a nice dress over the top.

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LibrariansMakeNovelLovers · 11/01/2013 19:08

YANBU I kept mine in babygros for aaaaages and once they were wearing 'real' cloths at 12+ months I would still sometimes jsut take them out in babygros if I felt like it

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IceNoSlice · 11/01/2013 19:06

CommanderShepard I'm with you on that. Pesky little blighted, those poppers.

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TheFallenNinja · 11/01/2013 18:55

Some Nans have overly romanticised memories of their own motherhood experiences coupled with an inability to keep their opinions to themselves. Smile

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CommanderShepard · 11/01/2013 18:50

Foof Mothercare had them last time I was in.

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CommanderShepard · 11/01/2013 18:49

I love babygros BUT I fail miserably at getting the bottom poppers done up right first time.

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FoofFighter · 11/01/2013 18:23

Shops call them sleepsuits because they want you to think they are only for night-times and then go on to spend more with them on "day-time" outfits Wink

I love babygros, especially white terrytowelling ones, sadly not something that's easy to find these days though, if anyone knows where to buy them please tell me!

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IceNoSlice · 11/01/2013 18:20

Mine wears a baby gro every day, pretty much. It's so chilly at the moment, I dress him in vest, socks, baby gro then pop some dungarees and a zip up jumper on top if we are going out (plus the pram suit for walks). Or maybe we just have a cold house Confused

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Fairylea · 11/01/2013 18:16

Maryz I cut the feet off too ! :)

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elizaregina · 11/01/2013 18:15

Id say its the most practical thing for baby to be in, what does nan want? jeans and a t ?

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Maryz · 11/01/2013 18:08

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TrazzleMISTLEtoes · 11/01/2013 18:07

Babygros all the way.

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Fairylea · 11/01/2013 18:04

I find it really interesting reading this as the very same discussion was on netmums ages ago and the majority there seemed to see gro's as pjs and also wouldn't put their ds in joggers!! (Why not? They are warm and comfortable!)

I love baby sleepsuits! Babies are babies, they should be primarily comfortable and warm :) ... and cute too :)

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WilsonFrickett · 11/01/2013 17:58

Oh YANBU. DS was in them till the ones people bought us were outgrown for 6 months. Lovely and comfy, no wee draughts, snuggly for him and me, easy to change a nappy. Lovely.

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