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AIBU?

to ask you why you read?

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quirrelquarrel · 05/01/2013 19:46

bit of a weird Q. But I've realised that I read for two reasons: to learn stuff (a lot is non-fiction), or just because it's a habit. I would feel strange without a book on the go, almost guilty! Which is crazy. And I don't think it's necessarily a good thing- means less time to absorb, to really think about what I've been reading, and it probably isn't doing my attention span much good- to always fill time like this. My mum always used to say "put the book down and MEDITATE for once" when I was a kid and I thought, that's for old people, but she has a point. I also have a funny sort of fear that I'm running out of time and I won't have time to learn all the things that I want to learn- which is silly. But every time I read a book, it makes me want/need to read ten more.
My dad reads anything, but mostly it's all historical. My mum doesn't read that much anymore except on her obsessions (we share this trait) but when she was younger it was all philosophy/C17-19th fiction. I read about specific interests and if it's novels, they're by people referenced in the history books I like as colourful characters.....

So why do you read? Do you think it's better to read slowly and take time in between the tomes, or do you always have several on your bedside table? Have you always been a reader, do you think it might be just as "bad" as screens and prolonged use of games consoles are if they get additictive.....so a bit of a two pronged question I guess. I'm interested in hearing people talk about reading tho, it's a nice benign friendly topic, and I know MN is book obsessed Wink

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grumpyinthemorning · 09/01/2013 15:37

I read to expand my outlook and my vocabulary, to escape to other worlds, to discover new ideas and reject or embrace them. I read for pleasure, for knowledge, to pass the time. I'll read anything I can get my hands on, and I do pretty much everything with one hand, the other holding a book (it's an acquired skill, perfected through years of practice).

Currently reading Alternative Femininities, between finishing the Twilight Saga and waiting for the next Game of Thrones book :)

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InMySpareTime · 09/01/2013 14:03

Amicissima, "Measuring America" by Andro Linklater, and "Hard Work" by Polly Toynbee

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mercury7 · 09/01/2013 11:29

was the minimum wage book by Barbara Ehrenreich?
She wrote a few others which I also enjoyed

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InMySpareTime · 09/01/2013 07:46

I just got a book from the library about building railways across America, returned a book investigating the theory of Arthur being a barbarian king, and I read a good one about the sewer systems of the world last year. My favourite non fiction in 2011 was about a lady who worked several minimum wage jobs to see what life on the bread line was really like. You are not alone!

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BunFagFreddie · 09/01/2013 07:35

I must be a weirdo, but I'm always reading non fiction books to find out about nerdy things that interest me. Right now, I'm readining "Mysteries of the Cathedrals" by Fulcanelli. It's about the Hermetic symbolism in France's Gothic cathedrals.

I often have more than one book on the go, a couple are located in the bathrooms iykwim.

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InMySpareTime · 09/01/2013 06:52

Thanks to this thread I have joined goodreads, anyone know how to add books it can't find? My "to read" pile is mostly international folk tales, it can't even find them from the ISBN!
Anyway, I love reading, and have mastered the art of reading whilst walking, using peripheral vision to see where I'm going.
Printed words have a way of lodging in my memory in a way spoken words cannot.

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MrsHoarder · 09/01/2013 01:56

I read because its the best escapism. It allows me to leave worldly troubles behind in a way that may not be productive. But as a medium it is fairly unique in the way which it is possible to step back from it if it is too much, unlike say TV, where your mind can't filter details out and you can't look away and leave it instantly.

Also I think reading books leads to more personal growth than MN.

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mercury7 · 09/01/2013 01:55

also I feel that by reading I can access the minds of clever people, people who have in depth knowledge of things I want to know about!

generally I prefer to read books than talk to people

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mercury7 · 09/01/2013 01:49

I read because I love reading, if I have an especially good book on the go I am delighted, I spend a fair amount of time looking for books that I'll enjoy.

I rarely find fiction that I can really get into, so I mostly read non fiction.

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achillea · 09/01/2013 00:08

I didn't say "live in the moment" - implying impulsive actions - that's completely different from "being in the moment", which is more to do with how someone engages with you. See, you read too fast to read proper.

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wordfactory · 07/01/2013 09:39

For pleasure...

I delight in the story, the characters, the craft. Nothing explores what it is to be human more than literature.

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brighthair · 07/01/2013 09:26

I definitely get the "reading without having to read"
I see a page not words and sentences so I can take in the page without moving my eyes. I often get asked "are you really reading that?" and accused of lying. Mainly at school but also by a friends Mum who fell out with my Mum over my reading

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ArbitraryUsername · 07/01/2013 09:15

I read usually very boring non-fiction for work. Sometimes I have to force myself to keep reading because it's so dull. Occassionally, I just can't keep going (some of it has actually put me to sleep). I tend to skim it all though (and read selectively, missing out all the really tedious sections entirely). My PhD thesis was actually about reading (a particular kind of literature).

I steal DS1's books and read them for leisure. I love a good bit of YA literature. I rarely read actual literary fiction (or anything intended for adults) and you could not pay me to wade through anything that could be referred to as 'chick lit'. Literary fiction is usually too much like hard work (I don't think it helps that cloud atlas is the last 'proper book' I tried to read; I made several attempts to keep going but I have admitted defeat and returned to teenagers in some kind of peril, which is what most of the books DS1 reads are about). I just have no interest whatsoever in 'chick lit'.

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PurpleStorm · 07/01/2013 09:02

Because I love readng.

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Bonsoir · 07/01/2013 08:55

For escapism, I would always much rather watch a DVD than read fiction.

But I love to read to learn.

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dinkystinky · 07/01/2013 08:55

escapism, channeling my imagination, relaxation and information

I love reading and tear through books.

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ShotgunNotDoingThePans · 07/01/2013 08:48

iismum*, I'm exactly the same - just put down my current book after 10 mins to check 'threads I'm on' and here I am Smile.

Can't decide whether the attention reduced when I had children or whether I've let it dwindle through spending too much time online - it's so easy to flit around without ever truly concentrating on and absorbing what you're reading.

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elleephant · 06/01/2013 23:18

When I was younger I read fiction avariously and intensly and I think I did so to figure out the adult world iykwim? All those complex emotional situations wholly absorbed for I'd say 15-20y.

Now I read mostly non-fiction, biographies and popular science/history mostly. V random. Also I find I don't really retain what I read now. Still read a lot though. It's more interesting than the telly ;)

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VitoCorleone · 06/01/2013 23:12

I usually tend to just read autobiographys, because im generally a nosy person.

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