My father in law spilt up with his partner 6 years ago, revealing that she had been accusing him of carrying on with me!!
They have still kepted seeing each other all this time, I have repeatedly over the years said she is well in our house.
My father inlaw sees her grandchildren regularly, but no effort is made on her part to have any contact with our children. My father inlaw takes my eldest child cycling every weekend with her granddaughter, my daughter has no idea what the connection is with this child to her grandad.
It feels like my family is still being punished for something that never happened.
My father inlaw has spent Christmas Day with us for the last 6 yrs, yesterday he told us he would be spending it with her and her family.
I feel so angry and upset that I now have to explain to a 9 and 4 yr old why their grandad isn 't coming this year!
My husband is close to his dad and doesn't see why I am upset.
Yesterday I sat and listened to my father inlaw telling us about a singing concert her granddaughters were in that they went to watch
I really Don 't know how to handle this, I saw her at a funeral a couple of months ago, we chatted and I told her myself she is welcome at our house, but no effort as been made!
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yummincepie · 03/12/2012 12:41
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