We live some distance from my DM (involved short plane journey or longer car/ferry trip). We visit each other 2 or 3 times a year. It's been a while since we've been over there - just been easier for her to come to us. This year is first year in about 10 years when we haven't all been together for Xmas. DM has some health probs - but nothing that stops her travelling (especially if she flies - relatively easy journey)
Anyways - before Xmas she said she'd visit in Jan/Feb, so I kept back some annual leave to be able to spend some time with her. She has now said she would prefer us to come to her as her wee dog has chronc health problems and she doesn't want to leave it (dog would stay with her friends who look after it very well). Now - DD1 is in school (so we wouldn't be able to make it til Easter - wasting my annual leave), DP is teaching and is unlikely to be able to have time off over easter so I'd have to take DDs by myself (8 and 2). AIBU to think that she should just leave the dog for a week? Its the sort of illness where dog could be OK, or could basically be very ill very quickly. Surely my Mum should put her life on hold for the foreseeable future just in case something happens with her wee dog??
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ginmakesitallok · 06/01/2012 12:08
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