Just posted about this in relationships but I guess it's an AIBU one too.
Basically I want to split up with my boyfriend. He hasn't "done" anything wrong, I'm just not happy in the relationship.
What makes it difficult is that he has NO friends, NO hobbies, NO social life - nothing. His entire world revolves around me and his job (and his job is a minimum wage shop job, nothing he actually feels good doing). Without me his life would be work/sleep/work/TV/sleep/work etc etc . Depressing but I don't really see why I should compromise MY life just because his sucks. I know that sounds harsh and I do care for him but I want my own life to move on. There is no future in our relationship, we don't even see each other on Christmas day ffs. We're both going on seperate holidays next year and he's made it clear our holidays etc always will be seperate as he doesn't want to involve the kids. We've been together 3 years and nothing has progressed in all that time.
And of course, it's Christmas eve.
AIBU to wait until after the festive season and THEN break it off early Jan?? I don't want to wreck his Christmas and as he has no friends etc, me breaking up with him now certainly would wreck his Christmas.
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To hold off breaking up until after Christmas?
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NoddyHoldersWig · 24/12/2011 10:36
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