It is probably a bit horrid but I am at the end of my tether.
I have DSs aged 9 and 10 and they will not bloody go to sleep. I have been tearing my hair out now for nigh on 4 years!! Normal routine is bath at around 7.30, snack and a glass of milk, faff about for ages then bed (after shouting at them to go 10 million times) at around 8.30. Then the fun begins.
I will hear them walking around, jumping around, having full on conversations that turn into shouting at each other after being told numerous times to GO TO SLEEP, one or the other will then come down to tell on the other one/tell us important stuff that they forgot to tell us etc. I do not expect them to go straight to sleep but do not expect to hear them until 11.30pm!! They do not have a TV in their room (that went long ago, only books).
Then at 7.00am when they are supposed to get up, they don't want to so cue laying around without getting dressed/washed/whatever they are supposed to do, terrible attitudes and arguments all round. I know damn well it is affecting their school work and their attitudes in general.
I am so sick of it and we have tried everything -separate rooms (makes no difference) staggered bedtimes (which do not work as the one that's supposed to be asleep won't be and they will then start again), bribes, threats of being locked in the car to sleep etc etc. They do out of school activities and are generally busy.
It has occurred to me as a last resort, to get them up so early that they are knackered all day and so will then therefore want to sleep at a reasonable time and I will gradually bring the wakeup time forward to around 6-6.30 when I usually get up anyway. They are still awake now so will get no more than 5 hours sleep tonight.
DH thinks it will be cruel, is it??
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to DRAG the DCs out of bed at 4.00am tomorrow morning?
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BlessYouToo · 30/11/2011 22:46
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