PILs have never really got their head around the fact that DH moved away when he went to uni (first in his family to do so) and that we live 3 hours away from them. They did a lot of moaning about visiting immediately post dd which dh had a word with them about.
They like visits to last 3 nights minimum. Both dh and I find the visits hard whether in their house or ours.
They recently asked to see us more frequently which we totally get. DH started talking about them coming for a shorter 1 night visit as his FIL is now down to 4 days a week at work. We invited them this coming weekend two weeks ago. Quite a kerfuffle ensued and now the dog is going to kennels sat - mon (dog more than easy and perfectly welcome) and they are staying sat night in a hotel halfway down.
They're not overly wealthy and with FIL moving towards retirement will be even less so. This amount of spend and hassle surely means it can't happen as frequently either?!
I also now feel really mean - like we're keeping them away the sat night. DH says important to stick to our original request as the way to move them along to easier more frequent visits.
AIBU by sticking to sun night only?
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To keep to original PILS invitation?
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pommedechocolat · 16/08/2011 12:40
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