yep, thread inspired by many other threads, but actually I think is a genuine and relevant discussion.
Time and time and time again there are threads on here about men, how men abuse, how children should be protected from men because men are more likely to abuse, how people wouldn't ever leave their children with a man for fear he might abuse them, and so the points are made.
There have even been questions raised over a man that cuddles a child and whether it would be appropriate for a man to physically interact with a young child, etc.
These questions/suspicions are never made about women.
IMO nobody would ever question a female teacher being very tactile with children, but if a male teacher did it this would automatically arouse suspicion.
Women do abuse children. In fact doing some reading online it's estimated that women are responsible for up to 40% of sexual abuse against boys (less against girls), so although less prevalent certainly not a tiny minority as it seems some people think.
I don't actually think that we should habitually be viewing any one gender with suspicion. I think we need to be aware, but I genuinely do wonder whether people are as aware, or want to be aware that women can abuse as well, and whether people would be as quick to report a woman they thought was suspicious purely because it's not a man, or whether in fact most people wouldn't consider a woman to be capable of sexual abuse.
And as consequence, I do wonder whether there are women out there who are abusing children, and getting away with it by virtue of the fact they are women.
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to wonder how many women there are out there abusing children, buut because of society's attitude that only men abuse, are never suspected?
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wannaBe · 14/06/2011 17:29
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