Dds aged 9 and 4, will not play unattended. We live on a carparking area that no-one else much uses apart from us, so they've got a large area of tarmac and 2 smaller areas of grass to play on. They've got a whole array of bikes, scooters, space hoppers, skipping ropes, bats and balls to play with. But you try to get them to play outside, they behave like it's a punishment.
We've had a very boring shopping trip in town this afternoon, and they were absolutely good as gold. 3 hours trailing around the shops looking for very specific plimsolls, not a problem.
Get home though and suggest that they play out for a bit and they grumpily oblige, reappearing every 5 mins to ask if they can come in. Now obviously today they could be tired from going round town, but this happens every time I try to get them outside.
If I let them inside they just sit down and ask for the tv/computer, which they know they're not allowed in the afternoon. I get irritated and tell them to 'just play' or they'll have to do jobs for me. They usually choose to do jobs, and end up folding laundry or something.
I spotted a little girl playing out round the corner today, doing dance routines, she is 6. So we invited her round to play. She was over the moon, since she's an only child, my kids were seemingly very excited. We got out all the outside toys, she started zooming round the carpark, jumping on and off stuff. Dd1 had snuck inside with a book within 10 minutes, dd2 invited her in to their bedroom. That's fine, but within about 10 minutes this girl said she wanted to go home because she wanted to play out side. Dd2 had been showing her every item of clothing she owned. I got my 2 to go outside with her again, but 5 mins later she went home because my 2 were just grumpily going through the motions.
Surely kids should want to go outside and run about like crazy?
I've just come out with the immortal 'JUST PLAY' again, and now they're sat on the floor in the lounge halfheartedly fiddling with the first thing they could find in the toy box. I've suggested to dd1 that she use the electronic set that she begged for christmas, been used about twice, she turned her nose up and carried on jabbing at the baby cash register.
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To want my kids to go and play in the sunshine
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slugz · 10/04/2011 17:54
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