This is going to be a bit of a rant so, sorry.
Work earlier this week a more junior member of staff who I supervise and who is 25 years of age, comes in announces she's not feeling well. She hasn't been eating much as her mum (whom she lives with) has gone away for a couple of weeks and she is "fending for herself" at home. Yes, she actually said fending for herself. She's actually having to cook and clean for herself too, the poor little love.
She has a little bit of a temperature and she came into my office to tell me this. But she's fine and able to shriek and laugh with other colleagues while she's googling her symptoms and she did manage to make it to work on a long commute. She looks fine, she sounds fine, most likely she is fine.
Imagine my surprise when I find out she needs to go to A&E as she thinks she has meningitis......?! She leaves all urgent work behind for other people, including me, to do for her. She's out for over four hours as unsurprisingly A&E put her at the back of the queue and threw her out immediately after she was seen telling her there was nothing wrong with her. She was most upset by this. But not so upset that she couldn't go out drinking with her mates that night as planned.
I have other junior members of staff that are like this. Low fever, sore throat, tiny rash, on the phone to the doctor or off to A&E they go as they think they're dying of some horrific disease. I feel as if I have a queue of school kids at my desk constantly who don't have any common sense.
Some of them are less than 5 years younger than me and they can't seem to handle themsleves. Some people are married with a couple of children by 25.
Is it just me. It has been a long week so I may be just be a heartless cow today
So AIBU?
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AIBU?
To expect mid twenty somethings to act like the adults they are?
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A1980 · 12/02/2011 00:13
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