If anyone has been watching Saints and Scroungers on daytime tv recently, there have been quite a few disability stories, both genuine and fraudulent. The thing that strikes me about the fraudulent claims is that someone has to REPORT them to the DLA people, someone needs to raise the alarm that there is a faker out there claiming benefits for no reason. So I say to any of you who knows about a neighbour with a 'bad back' who digs the garden up, lugs furniture around and stuff while claiming disability allowance - ring them up! They can't investigate if they don't know, and they certainly don't have the resources to go checking up on every claimant to weed out the fakers from the genuinely disabled people.
It's their fault that we have to jump through hoops to get DLA for genuine people, the reason we have to go through the indignity of writing about our toileting needs and work out how many minutes of the day we need to have support (stupid effing question!)
It's one of the most heartbreaking and convoluted jobs I've ever had to do, I've spent days and days filling those stupid forms in, pulling my dd apart shred by shred and writing about all the bad things, all the things she is unable to do, all the things that make her so different from other children her age. I spend hours repeating myself on page after page to answer their nit picking questions, all the while praying that she will still be entitled, despite being severely disabled. As a parent, you spend your time trying to be positive, celebrating the tiniest achievement, trying to forget that your child will never be able to be like their peers, and the DLA form is the one thing which throws it all in your face and rubs your nose in it.