My parents, although I love them very much, have totally different parenting views from myself and DH. We are fairly laid back and praise rather than discipline, which works well with DS's.
They come over at least once a week, and usually pick up DS1 from school so I can work a little later (we have our own business so this really does help). While they are at our house they are constantly going on at DS's, and discipline them while we are there rather than letting us deal with whatever they perceive to be the problem.
I have asked them to leave it to us, which works for a while, but I think it has become a habit and they can't help themselves.
It has now got to the point where DH absolutley flipped out at them on Saturday (he has never done this in the 7 years we have been married), and basically spent the remainder of their visit upstairs trying to calm down.
They are over again today and I am dreading what lies ahead, particularly as DH has said he will have a 'chat' with them when he sees them - I know that my Dad in particular will not see that he has done anything wrong and will kick off back.
I don't want to be in the middle of this! AIBU and WWYD?
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Towatessa · 26/11/2010 15:06
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