To expect my dp to get up with the kids when i've been ill all night!

[kaylasmum]

I've been ill since yesterday morning with a stomach bug, my dp took the day off work yesterday to help with the kids aged 7 and 3 as i could'nt leave the house to take my dd to school. I totally appreciate that he did this to help me. His boss was totally fine with him taking time off, he:s even getting paid for being off. He said to me last night if i was'nt any better today he would take today off too. I:ve been up ct least 10 times through the night with constant diahorreah and i'm absolutely drained. Anyway, this morning ct about half 8 my 3yo wanted to go down for his breakfast an he asked his daddy to take him down, he kept putting him off so i asked him if he was going to take him down and he said 'i thought i'd be able to get a long lie, i'll just go to work'. I explained to him that i'd been up most of the night and did'nt want to be away from the toilet for too long so did'nt want to go downstairs. I never lie in my bed when i'm ill but i feel so awful. So aibu?

[kaylasmum]

He is off today. He eventually took the kids down for breakfast ten minutes ago. I'm glad to see that other people dont think iabu. I thought i was maybe over reacting.

[GingerGlitterGoddess]

YANBU - so basically he was only planning to take today off as he thought he'd get a lie in?!?!?! How odd. Has he gone to work now? Hope you feel better soon

[GypsyMoth]

So is he off today as well??

[FindingMyMojo]

clearly YANBU, you are quite sick. get well soon!

[cherryburton]

No, YANBU. Am sure he thinks he has brownie points in the bank after yesterday but this is not the time to cash them in.

Hope you feel better soon!