I have always wanted to adopt children (preferably a sibling group so not especially a baby, unless they are part of a sibling group, more children aged 2-10 years old).
The thing is, I both waited to have my own children and adopt, so now I am at the end of my thirties, have 4 children 5 and under and still would like to foster/adopt (I suppose the process would take 2 years or more from when it starts).
We have the means to provide for more children, a house big enough for each kid to have their bedroom, I work from home and can afford to reduce my hours/ stop working for a while. I have been a nanny for year before, including with children with challenging behaviour, I have my own kids, I am fully aware that adopting won't be a fairy tale.
So my question is is it even worth starting the process now or I am flat out going to be rejected and should wait until my youngest is 3 or 4? Or does having 4 children automatically means I won't be accepted, until they are all way older?
Thanks for your help everyone.
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Sammymommy · 19/07/2023 15:02
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