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Do SWs truly believe they are Time Lords?

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ChoccyJules · 05/04/2017 19:09

I can't give details and am not going to drip feed but BLOODY HELL there are some entitled people out there and we can do and say nothing, as usual. Send cake. Booze. Kittens.

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C0RAL · 01/05/2017 22:19

Ah but I lined my stomach with these first

🥐🍳🥓🍕🥞🌭🍔🥗🌯🍟🥘🍣🍱🍝🍜🍲

So I'm quite sober

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conserveisposhforjam · 01/05/2017 22:05

That's quite the night you're having there coral...

Cake🐈🍰🐈

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C0RAL · 01/05/2017 21:59

🍷🍷🍷🍷🍷🍸🍸🍹🍹🍻🍻🍺🍺🥃🥃

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ChoccyJules · 01/05/2017 21:04

Kinda. I don't want to dripfeed so am saying nowt for now. Just so frustrating as per. And really quite incredible when you think you've seen it all how low some professionals will stoop. Chipper could have been Wine Wink

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conserveisposhforjam · 01/05/2017 20:46

Hmmmmmmm. Content terrible, tone quite chipper...

Are things at least moving in the right direction (albeit held back by 'the system') choccy?

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C0RAL · 01/05/2017 16:36

Oh dear Sad . Not going well ? < understatement >

It's Kris BTW

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ChoccyJules · 01/05/2017 16:22

Right, so any SWs will want to pass over this thread so as not to spoil their Bank Holiday Cake

Lying, obfuscating, rude, inept morons!!!!! Ahem, that's better. I just wanted to let my friends know I'm still here and it's all still a pile of poop, if not a veritable steaming heap. As you were Grin

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conserveisposhforjam · 10/04/2017 09:13

'The social got called on my friend because she had a daytime nap once when her kids were 12 and 15' exclaimed the multitudes.

But the wise ones said 'Halt! For 'tis a falsehood! And is bloody irresponsible of you to put it on AIBU. Your mate is a liar forsooth.' And they saw that it was so and it came to passeth 1,000 posts and OliviaMumsnet did post most fully and waxeth on about the holy Talk Guidelines.

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tldr · 10/04/2017 00:31

We only have three arguments on here and this is number 3 of 3. no please, nobody mention the other two by name

And, lo, there was a baby stealing documentary thread in AIBU...

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ChoccyJules · 09/04/2017 18:47

WineGrin

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tldr · 09/04/2017 16:13


Choccy, none of it is you. Hope you're enjoying sunshine and springtime today. Flowers
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OlennasWimple · 09/04/2017 16:09

Choccy I understood what you meant too.

Our assessment stage went on for ages and ages and ages (not entirely against our wishes, as we didnt' want to rush into it). Then suddenly all the paperwork had to be completely overnight. Hmm

Hope things get better soon Flowers

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conserveisposhforjam · 09/04/2017 14:32

No I am absolutely not disparaging the op on that thread in any way.

Just taking the piss out of tldr because she expects it and it keeps her calm Grin

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comehomemax · 09/04/2017 12:42

The name change thread is a genuine thread Boston (I'm assuming!). It was mentioned here because I joked upthread about starting a name change thread to distract from a row here as those threads have caused a rumpus previously (when our regular troll was active)! Then 5 mins later one appeared - but they do tend to appear regular as clockwork!

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bostoncremecrazy · 09/04/2017 09:22

Did i just waste time i dont really have on a sockpuppet name change thread 😠

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LocoMoco · 09/04/2017 00:24

Both our SW and DDs SW were very competent.
Some others we dealt with in passing were infuriating.

If choccy had started a thread on aibu about her managers poor organisational skills and how it was causing her undue pressure, you wouldn't expect a load of managers to jump down her throat saying YABU and unkind as I'm a good manager and I've got a lot on...

Don't be so fucking ridiculous.

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Bingybongboo · 08/04/2017 20:38

I've worked alongside sw for many years and had total respect for them. Then I became part of the 'process' where I have lost all respect for them. Many are judgemental and lack empathy. I could go on and on but I won't. Yes it's a hard job doesn't mean to say you can treat people badly.
Hope things get better op

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donquixotedelamancha · 08/04/2017 20:33

"I can't quite recall how I got to the title but it's something to do with SWs being able to do bugger all for 2 months and then want something doing the next day."

DD2's SW once phoned at 5.45 pm: 'I must see the children this week'
(Our SW had finally grassed on her for missing statutory minimums for months, so the call was expected- every visit we tried and failed to book the next one in).
Me: 'It's thursday, so that's tomorrow. I suppose you can come at.....'
Her: 'No, I'm busy tomorrow'. I can be round in 30 minutes (she's 45 min away).
Me: 'No, the children are going to bed soon.'
Her: [Harrumph] Well, I suppose 8 am tomorrow will be OK.

I understood the timelord comment immediately, choccy, and you did nothing wrong.

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conserveisposhforjam · 08/04/2017 19:51

A name changing sock puppet is a little more likely tldr but yeah we can go with witch you delightfully whimsical naif you Grin

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comehomemax · 08/04/2017 19:44

Choccy, you've nothing to apologise for. And I'm crossing all my fingers and toes for you!

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ChoccyJules · 08/04/2017 18:16

Oh dear - I'm ever so sorry people. As I think most of you realised I genuinely just wanted a vent. I can't quite recall how I got to the title but it's something to do with SWs being able to do bugger all for 2 months and then want something doing the next day. Yeah something close to thatHmm anyway thank you to everyone for their support and when I can say anything I will - but until then I'll continue to use this board to connect with people who understand me best.

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tldr · 08/04/2017 16:37

Max is a witch?

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comehomemax · 08/04/2017 16:34
Grin
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conserveisposhforjam · 08/04/2017 16:18

I might start a thread about name changing. That should distract everyone for a while

And lo, it came to pass...

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comehomemax · 08/04/2017 12:51

cupcakes have you actually read the posts on the first page?? Before the passing sw posted, there were 8 posts roughly and besides choccys only one reference to a social worker. Are you seriously suggesting that requires a private board for fear of passing offence?
I disagree, nothing here I've read has been aggressive or abusive but if you disagree, then report. All I've seen are posters sharing frustrations - in a board set up to allow us to do so. This is adoption. We can say what we like within the sites guidelines. And this is about us and our experiences, hence the me, me, me you mention. That's the very nature of the bloody site.

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