Just that really.
I LTB almost 8 years ago. Without him holding me back and sabotaging my life in that 8 years I have:-
- Travelled and worked in multiple countries (this enabled me to massively improve my ability in two other languages and learn/experience fun stuff like skiing and diving that I’d never had the opportunity to do before).
- Got into the best physical shape/fitness of my life (then lost it due to injury + illness, but working on getting it back now).
- Obtained financial security and implemented a successful retirement/future plan (starting from absolutely nothing).
- Met a decent DP who treats me well and makes me laugh every day.
Hoping this will help and/or inspire other posters to leave their abusive/lazy/useless millstones.