I read babies should smile at 6 weeks hut kine still aren't at 7 weeks. Have our 6 week check on Tues and dreading them asking if they're smiling yet and having to admit thry aren't. It's our fault for not being able to make them happier.
All they do is sleep, cry, scream, eat, sick up. Between 3 hourly feeds and a 4 yo in school I just don't have much time when they're actually to play etc but I just feel like I'm letting them down so much. They're behind on their development because I'm not a good enough Mom and thry aren't smiling / always crying because I don't know how to make them happy.
Right now they're asleep curtesy of gripe water but they hate the taste and get really upset for a few minutes afterwards. They're also quite blocked up nasally but hate the nasal spray. And beyond that thry just s ream for the hell of it. It'd really difficult picking them both up so inevitably one ends up being left to scream, sometimes until he falls asleep which can't be good either as they're learning no one comes to you when you cry.
I'm genuinely worried about what pathways all those neurons are making and how damaged they will be emotionally by me not being good enough.
Advice please on being a good enough Mom? I just want happy babies
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7 weeks, not smiling, our fault?
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SleepingStandingUp · 02/02/2020 00:35
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