I feel as though there are a lot of false information in the press and in general knowledge about child protection social workers so, ask me anything!
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I am a child protection social worker - AMA
KeepingUpWithTheKs · 08/08/2022 12:20
boomoohoo · 08/08/2022 22:08
@KeepingUpWithTheKs you sound like a great social worker :)
Angrypandy · 08/08/2022 22:08
Thank you for everything you do. Strange one, but so you ever get a feel for people outside work who you don't trust? And do you think your work affects that? (The context is i have a daughter who is friends with a boy in her class. The Dad of the boy is very friendly and often drinks in the same pub as I do (it's a small place so nothing odd about that). However, my friend who is a social worker actively dislikes him and can't really explain why - the reasons she gives are a bit trivial - I can never decide is she is over reacting or if she has special social worker powers and he's not to be trusted (I find him a bit odd, but mostly fine).
OverTheRubicon · 09/08/2022 00:13
Why are you so sure that your colleague's daughter is the problem? Even if everything she's saying actually is a lie, having a severely depressed parent is unfortunately a massive trauma, even when the parent is doing their absolute best for the child and thinks they're hiding it well.
The daughter could be telling the truth, she could be trying to find a way to get the attention she needs, or maybe she does have some kind of personality disorder or mental health issue of her own... But in any case, having a SW listen to her could be a good thing, and might result in help for the mother and daughter.
Sorry to derail - OP you sound amazing and thank you for sharing.
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boomoohoo · 09/08/2022 09:00
@purpleme12 that sounds so stressful, not only the outbursts but your neighbour too. It sounds like you're dealing with it and like the school have done the right thing by referring - I hope it's picked up and taken seriously, but if not please do keep asking for help from gp / ss, unfortunately sometimes you have to really kick up a fuss before getting what's needed.
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