Hi everyone, I apologise if this is listed in the wrong forum, I couldn't decide between this or aibu! Sorry but it's a long one.
I appreciate this topic has been done to death but I wanted to tell you this and gauge opinion.
My dw met a friend today, the topic of bf came up where by said friend mentioned to dw that one of her other (male) friends, let's call him Tom, had said that woman shouldn't bf in public, my dw pointed out that she had bf our dd in front of Tom before and my dw friend said that was the reason Tom had brought it up with her. Now a few months ago we were at dw friends garden party and Tom was there, this is where my wife bf in front of him. She used a cover, so didn't have everything hanging out but Tom told dw friend that he had felt uncomfortable and that dw should have gone to the bathroom or inside the house as it would have only taken a couple of minutes (he has no dc so has no idea) and it made him feel uncomfortable!
Dw was only told today and she mentioned it to me, it has really annoyed both of us. It is almost like he feels his comfort level comes above that of a woman and that of a hungry baby. Why should a woman who is comfortable enough to bf in public be made to feed her baby elsewhere due to someone else feeling uncomfortable with the idea?! I want to mention it to him if I ever meet him again, what annoys me most is the fact that he is a lawyer. How can someone think like this when it is illegal for businesses to ask a woman not to breastfeed in public? (this was dw friends house, so I would expect even more understanding)
For the record I am a long time lurker on FWR, as a man it has really opened my eyes, and whilst I appreciate I can never fully understand the issues woman face in society today it has given me a lot to think about and made me question a lot in everyday life.
Again I apologise if this is posted in the wrong area, I can request it to be moved of you wish. Thank you for any input .
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callmewhatever · 01/11/2014 16:57
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